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SleeZy

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Well folks, I got "another" label hung on me by the croaker :rolleyes: Not only do I have asperger's but it appears I have a bit of ADD as well :( So, they are going to stick me on Ritalin :eek:

I would stay away from ritalin... it's the devils work for sure. No i'm not christian. :p
atleast in my case it made stuff worse. However i guess, try it and if it works for you, that's great!!
But i'm abit hesitant to let ppl even use that pill...
There's better meds out there now also, than ritalin. (But they've to start there, atleast here in sweden.) And eventually try the right med...
I hope u get the right one for ya mate! :)
 

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So to the folks with over double my age have you had a good and long lasting relationship?
Most of my adult life has been spent in short term relationships, not usually lasting more than a few years, but I ended my last one early this year, after spending 14 years with her. I have never been married, the biggest reason being that I have been in no position to have kids. No money, too disorganized, unsettled in other ways, too.
Or has it been to hard to emotionally connect?
Sometimes yes, sometimes no, usually yes and no.
And is it crazy for me to be willing to give up all of my dreams for my partners dreams?
Yes.
 

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    I would stay away from ritalin... it's the devils work for sure.
    <------ Have you seen my picture lately :w00t:
    atleast in my case it made stuff worse. However i guess, try it and if it works for you, that's great!!

    I am not liking the idea too much myself but they are going to try other things if that stuff doesn't work
     

    AXIOM_1

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    Most of my adult life has been spent in short term relationships, not usually lasting more than a few years, but I ended my last one early this year, after spending 14 years with her. I have never been married, the biggest reason being that I have been in no position to have kids. No money, too disorganized, unsettled in other ways, too.

    You better get with the program before you get too old eh?
     

    nicnik

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    You better get with the program before you get too old eh?
    I think I've reached the point where I am not at all interested in having kids, especially now that I'm in my 60s. I used to want to, in a big picture sort of way, but I was wise to not ever agree to. It would've been disaster for me, so probably not too good for potential wife and kids, either.

    I used to think that the only way getting married would make any sense for me, would be if I were to have kids. I doubt I'll ever get married now, but I haven't totally ruled it out.
     
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    AXIOM_1

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    Try it Axiom, It may help? Never know if you do not try.

    Speaking of that I need to call and make a shrinker appt for myself tomorrow.

    You better do it Lord Cromwell or I am dropping down a couple of States and picking you up and taking you to one ;)
     

    AXIOM_1

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    I think I've reached the point where I am not at all interested in having kids, especially now that I'm in my 60s. I used to want to, in a big picture sort of way, but I was wise to not ever agree to. It would've been disaster for me, so probably not too good for potential wife and kids, either.

    I used to think that the only way getting married would make any sense for me, would be if I were to have kids. I doubt I'll ever get married now, but I haven't totally ruled it out.

    Well, at least you are using a goodly amount of wisdom in those regards.
     

    theddead

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    vaping for me is a clutch and hobby.
    When I am stressed I drip 6mg when I am relaxed 1.5 mg and flavor and cloud chase.

    So to the folks with over double my age have you had a good and long lasting relationship? Or has it been to hard to emotionally connect? And is it crazy for me to be willing to give up all of my dreams for my partners dreams?

    Sent from my 0PJA2 using Tapatalk

    I'm. ... older.
    45.
    My thought is this;
    The idea is to find someone who either shares your dream, or who chooses to pursue your dreams with you. (Both ways)
    Not ever. Ask you to give up your dreams.
    My wife wants something?
    We go after it.
    Together.
    That is love, friendship.
    And if you can find the strength to hold out and wait for it, it is glorious!
    ( f### waiting. Date, mingle, meet, have fun looking. Never ever settle or lust though)
    (I am debating if i should just shut up and delete this. ... I've been there, so. .... I'll send it.)
     

    theddead

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    This made me laugh abit due the diagnosis hysteria around here in sweden. :)


    Yes, but not as much as the cigarettes did. But it's doable. :)



    Yepp! Or with my coffee. Well i guess they both go hand in hand, but still. :)



    I would mostly say a crutch, but it also helps me focus throughout the day.


    Nope... :)

    I'm abit late to the party, but well i figure i should answer your questions. :)

    Edit:

    Happy birthday @AXIOM_1

    Good to have you here Sweden.
    You are most welcome here.
    And you aren't late.
    We waited for you!
     
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