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SandySu

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Here's a photo that's quite different from the others, but I need something colorful today. This was a glass sculpture close-up that is on display at the Corning Museum of Glass, in Corning, NY, a nice day trip from here. When I was a kid, we first went to Corning, and I remember being very impressed with not only the glass-blowing demos but with the museum, too. I even met a glass blower some years ago that said he got into the business after a visit to Corning and seeing them blowing glass. Nowadays, they have an area where guests can try their hand at glass-blowing, too, and take home the object they make. Maybe next time I visit, I'll give it a try.

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Why I needed to post something bright was to cheer up. I went to physical therapy today, which went well, and she measured my angles of how far I can move my arm in a number of directions, and they all improved. Then I went to the bone doctor who did the operation. He said something that is depressing. I guess he expected more range of motion by now, because he said that I may need another operation to remove the plate from my arm if I want full range of motion. Hey! I thought the operation was supposed to do that! Well, he never did make promises, other than he said if I didn't have the operation, I could never expect to have full range of motion. I guess I just hopefully jumped to the conclusion that the operation would eventually enable me to have full range of motion. I'm not eager to have another operation. I'll discuss this with my physical therapist, of course. She's very encouraging, but maybe she just cheerleads all her patients, no matter what their chances are. So the bone doctor left it that we'll see in another couple of months how I'm doing. I have another appointment in March. I guess if the plate is hindering my motion, then another operation is in the cards, but I really hate the thought of starting all over again. I need cheering up, but of course, nothing anyone can say will make my arm work better than it does. Only the physical therapy exercises can do that -- and maybe that won't work totally, either. If I have another operation, does that mean I'll have full range of motion eventually? No one will probably make that promise, so it's a gamble, but this isn't like a poker game, it's my ability to do things and move normally!
 

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Thanks Rabbit and Moonstruck, it's good to have someone(s) that understands. My hubby was never a smoker, so I suppose maybe it seems like no biggie to him. But yes, he was really happy when I stopped the cigs, so he knows the difference for sure! ....Maybe I need a new battery or some wraps or something.....:evil:
Q take consolation in knowing your husband's co-worker will probably start smoking again. Maybe then he will open his eyes to vaping then IF he is serious. Our hospital is going smoke free and I handed out SI cards all over that place. I know when I quit smoking that one and only time before I started vaping I was a human grizzly. No book is going to get a person off cigarettes not for long anyway IMHO. There are a small handful of people that have the will power to do so.
My husband never smoked either but he's a wise man never has opened his mouth about my smoking,was pleased when I started vaping.If he had ever brought home a book telling me how to quit smoking I would have made him ate it page by page. Matter of fact after 6mos of quitting that time my husband went bought me a pack and a lighter and said " Honey, either smoke or I'm drawing up the divorce papers,you can have EVERYTHING I just want out of this hell."
Be patient Q,your hubby doesn't understand, he can't he's never smoked.Your right to be upset,I think you deserve a new battery myself maybe a new case or two or whatever strikes your fancy
 

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I had a great day at work! I actually received a great yearly evaluation for a change! My last department supervisor didn't agree with the city rating system and always rated everyone so low to the point that we looked like failures. Even though we tried to tell him that those low marks could hurt us if we tried to change departments and/or promotions, it always fell on deaf ears. It felt like a slap in the face after reading it! In that dept we would always get what I called "the Friday drive-bys" a half an hour before quitting time our evaluation would be handed to us at our cubicles. That way we read our awful eval, have only 30 minutes of work left to steam and stew and then be mad for the weekend. They always hoped that we would blow it off by Monday morning, which rarely happened with a few of our folks. Oh how I hated those days!

Now that I'm in a new dept, I have a great supervisor that let me read my eval before she made the final draft and allowed me to make changes if I wanted to. It was a great review and makes me want to get up everyday and go to work! I can only thank my lucky stars for the move to another department. It's nice to be appreciated on paper!

I hope everyone had a wonderful day/night!
 

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I'm beginning to wonder if size matters when it comes to vaping around some family members who have never smoked and are not familiar with the ecig. When I started vaping, I had the Volt 65 and 78mm cig-a-likes with the black carts. They were so happy and curious about the vaping process and thrilled that I stopped smoking...

I moved up to the 650 X2 (BIG battery) and X2 clearo's... "What's that stuff in there?". That's when it started. Seeing the liquid made them uncomfortable, mostly my mom. Questions of why I needed something that big if my intention was to stop smoking. I started increasing my inventory of equipment and liquids, explaining that I'm getting away from anything resembling a cigarette and getting different flavors to get away from anything tasting like cigarettes. The more stuff I got the more mom worried. Now, even my husband has started the concerned looks but he hasn't said anything... yet. I'm glad no one notices the difference with the ego twists because they look exactly like X2's. Then the infamous T3's make an appearance! Gigantic that holds ALL that STUFF on a 1300 battery!!! I only use that and clearo's at home but I feel that I don't have anything to hide so if she comes over, then she sees my setups. I'm in my own house :censored: not her's!

I got a couple of mini ego batteries to take with me when I go to mom's house or other family functions. They are so tiny and cute and the battery life is much longer than 78's. The entire setup including mini drip tip is about the same size as a T3. Now at least, mom appears more comfortable with the tiny size that conceals that STUFF and, so far, no more comments from her.

I don't dare move up to anything bigger!
 

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Thanks Rabbit and Moonstruck, it's good to have someone(s) that understands. My hubby was never a smoker, so I suppose maybe it seems like no biggie to him. But yes, he was really happy when I stopped the cigs, so he knows the difference for sure! ....Maybe I need a new battery or some wraps or something.....:evil:

Boy do I hear you!

I met Mrs. Wabbit 49 years ago in college. I smoked like a furnace and drank like a fish:laugh::facepalm: On the other hand Mrs. Wabbit was a :angel:. No smoking, no drinking -- It is amazing that we are still together after all these years. She has never smoked nor had any alcohol. Well, now I only drink very occasionally, vape instead of smoke, and since I am retired, I clean house, take care of the yard and car and generally do everything I can to love her and keep her happy. BUT, I still get the glare when I work on my DIY and vape too much around her. Luckily I have the family room as my MAN CAVE. Still life is GREAT, I am still in love and vaping hopefully will prolong my days on this planet.
 

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Why I needed to post something bright was to cheer up. I went to physical therapy today, which went well, and she measured my angles of how far I can move my arm in a number of directions, and they all improved. Then I went to the bone doctor who did the operation. He said something that is depressing. I guess he expected more range of motion by now, because he said that I may need another operation to remove the plate from my arm if I want full range of motion. Hey! I thought the operation was supposed to do that! Well, he never did make promises, other than he said if I didn't have the operation, I could never expect to have full range of motion. I guess I just hopefully jumped to the conclusion that the operation would eventually enable me to have full range of motion. I'm not eager to have another operation. I'll discuss this with my physical therapist, of course. She's very encouraging, but maybe she just cheerleads all her patients, no matter what their chances are. So the bone doctor left it that we'll see in another couple of months how I'm doing. I have another appointment in March. I guess if the plate is hindering my motion, then another operation is in the cards, but I really hate the thought of starting all over again. I need cheering up, but of course, nothing anyone can say will make my arm work better than it does. Only the physical therapy exercises can do that -- and maybe that won't work totally, either. If I have another operation, does that mean I'll have full range of motion eventually? No one will probably make that promise, so it's a gamble, but this isn't like a poker game, it's my ability to do things and move normally!

I hope you can find your answers SandySu and get well. At least you have your excellent photography to engross your mind with and your friends here in Voltville to lean on. We are all rooting for you!
 

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Sandy, I'm glad to know that you are making good grades with your therapist, and sorry that you received discouraging news too. It doesn't seem right that the surgeon didn't give you a full disclosure before your surgery, but to me that is just how a lot of doctors are. Still keeping you on the healing list, once I put someone in, they stay.

Great pic, reminds me of my avatar. :)
 

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SandySu - Doctors are notoriously negative IMHO. Talk to your physical therapist, keep doing your exercises and do not allow the doctor to bring you to a point of discouragement. I'd be hesitant about another operation, too, so keep up the good work and see how you are doing in a couple of months. You are doing great and should be proud of yourself.

Alrightey, peeps, fun day. Need to get of this computer and go find something useful to do. Have a great night.
 

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Sandy,

I just can't believe everyone elses problems seem to be universal. About 10 years ago Mrs. Wabbit had problems with her foot. We went to what we were told was the No. 1 Dr. for her particular problem in Baltimore, Md. 105 miles away. He did a tendon transfer and put a stainless steel screw in her foot. He told us that she would be good as new in 6 months. Well, 6 months later she was still in pain and her foot movement was actually worse even after physical therapy. Then he told us he needed to take out the screw in another operation. WHAT? Actually all of the operations went well according to him, but the problem exists to this day. Less pain than before, she walks welll, but GOD forbid you touch her foot in any way like bump it accidentally.

I pray you will weather this storm and everything will work out. Keep us up to date on everything.
 

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I had a great day at work! I actually received a great yearly evaluation for a change! My last department supervisor didn't agree with the city rating system and always rated everyone so low to the point that we looked like failures. Even though we tried to tell him that those low marks could hurt us if we tried to change departments and/or promotions, it always fell on deaf ears. It felt like a slap in the face after reading it! In that dept we would always get what I called "the Friday drive-bys" a half an hour before quitting time our evaluation would be handed to us at our cubicles. That way we read our awful eval, have only 30 minutes of work left to steam and stew and then be mad for the weekend. They always hoped that we would blow it off by Monday morning, which rarely happened with a few of our folks. Oh how I hated those days!

Now that I'm in a new dept, I have a great supervisor that let me read my eval before she made the final draft and allowed me to make changes if I wanted to. It was a great review and makes me want to get up everyday and go to work! I can only thank my lucky stars for the move to another department. It's nice to be appreciated on paper!

I hope everyone had a wonderful day/night!

That's great that you are in a department now that rewards employees for the hard work they do. It's definitely good to feel appreciated.
 

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SandySu, I'm so sorry that you got that discouraging news and I pray that you don't have to go through another surgery. Hopefully, with continued PT, your range of motion will improve on it's own. Doctors think they know everything, but they don't. The human body can even surprise them sometimes. Keep your chin up and stay strong.

You surprise us yet again with another great photo... glass for heaven sake, who would have guessed!
 

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Maybe this photo will cheer me up.

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One thing I've noticed, and I mentioned it to the doctor today, is that I can tell when it's going to rain or snow. My arm hurts the day before, which it's doing now. I think it's going to rain tomorrow, which will either wash away the snow on the ground, if it rains a lot, or more probably, it'll turn it all to ice. I think the pain is in my steel plate in my arm, so maybe when I said that, the doctor thought it'd be better to remove it? It's interesting to be able to forecast the weather, but I'd rather not hurt before whatever precipitation falls.
 

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One thing I've noticed, and I mentioned it to the doctor today, is that I can tell when it's going to rain or snow. My arm hurts the day before, which it's doing now. I think it's going to rain tomorrow, which will either wash away the snow on the ground, if it rains a lot, or more probably, it'll turn it all to ice. I think the pain is in my steel plate in my arm, so maybe when I said that, the doctor thought it'd be better to remove it? It's interesting to be able to forecast the weather, but I'd rather not hurt before whatever precipitation falls.

I know exactly how that feels. I broke my knee cap in the Navy and had part of it removed. The older I get it seems as if my knee has become a better weatherman when it comes to wet weather. This is one main reason why I stay in California. The weather back east almost made me a cripple. My doctor says there's not much he can do except prescribe pain pills. Something I'm not a fan of.

I hope you have some good weather come your way! Sunshine is the best when you are feeling blue.
 

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Thanks everyone, Awsum, Sandy, Rabbit, Lizzie, Raynes, JoAnn, nice to bounce things off people that understand and lend support! Don't worry, after being together 30 some years I have a nice frying pan and I'm not afraid to use it.

Tail, Congrats on your great evaluation!


Sandy,before I had more surgery I would get a second opinion or two from different drs if that is possible
I agree with Raynes, surgeons tend to think surgery first, something to remember.
 

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Sandy,before I had more surgery I would get a second opinion or two from different drs if that is possible.

I'll have to see if I can do that and Medicare will cover it. You'd think something like that would be covered, wouldn't you? My physical therapist likes my doctor, but she said he's a "nice guy," so I don't know if that means she knows he's a good doctor or if he's just agreeable for her to work with. I'll find out about a 2nd opinion. Maybe I can call my insurance company that covers what Medicare doesn't cover. They advertise that they have some sort of help line where you can speak to a nurse, but maybe that's just with medical questions, not the business end, like what's covered by insurance. Thanks for the suggestion.
 

SandySu

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I agree with Raynes, surgeons tend to think surgery first, something to remember.

That thought had occurred to me, too. In fact, I thought I detected a sort of gleam in his eye when he mentioned another operation. I think he was mentally rubbing his hands together just thinking about it. I think this man loves his job.
 
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