People here, myself included tried to let you know how to handle the situation with the PMs. Instead of following those instructions you chose to continue this thread and it is going to flame people. Fuel their fires, if you will.
I am devastated to hear of your prognosis and current health concerns, I cannot begin to imagine what you are experiencing outside of the ECFs in your life right now.
Please understand he may be in the *SAME* boat as you - we all have lives with trials and tribulations. If you are purposefully throwing gas on a fire you will get responses like these. If you do not agree with a posters response - make a composed thought out response, there is no need to get infuriated and name call. Especially with much bigger things on your plate - you must realize what is truly important and what is not. You alone make the choice of whether or not others have the power to affect you.
Its a response in a forum - if you feel it is outside of the rules of the forum, report it or ignore it.
Started another thread is going to just be throwing a 50 gallon drum of gasoline into the fire you have chosen to create.
There are way more important things in life than someone that is -not nice- on the interwebz. Put things in perspective to improve your life OP. As you know more than many - its always shorter than expected.