You don't need to call or text him... let it all cool off... either he will call you or you don't need to talk... remeber who is in control.
I meant a figurative walk, not a literal one. But literal walking is good, too.
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You don't need to call or text him... let it all cool off... either he will call you or you don't need to talk... remeber who is in control.
I meant a figurative walk, not a literal one. But literal walking is good, too.
I got your message earlier, Shay, but I was still snoozing. I did message you back tho. Finally got you added to my IM. Stupid thing wouldn't add you properly. Anyhow, good for you again. It was a brave thing you did.
I hope your cooling off period brings you both some clarity. If anyone told you this crap was easy, they lied.
you try carrying a 37+ pound youngin around the block 5 times and see how your back feels
no biggie, as long as i let someone in the fam know what was going on that's what mattered to me at the time.
it's not but i have a wonderful friend of mine here in Pace. He went through the same exact thing and it giving me helpful advice. But i know that what worked for him may not work for me.
I appreciated it. Hopefully things will work out for the best tho. I may not have the answers you seek but I can offer smiles to cheer you up.
ty u all for such nice words!!!!u are all soooo sweet!!!
@ rachel hope your friend gets well soon! {{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Ooh, red, look at you! Gorgeous hair! And thanks, hon. I hope he gets better soon, too. I miss him! rofl Who else am I gonna show all the cool new vape stuff to and commiserate on all the gear we're lusting over. lol
Hey, Mrs! So sorry to hear things are mondo tense yet again. On the walking out thing.... not to say its always a good idea, cause its not... it can backfire. BUT. The thing I've figured out about men is most of them have ZERO (negative number, actually) feel for subtlety. What this means is if you're silently seething mad, or barely holding in the tears, or utterly miserable 99% of the time... there are a whole slew of men who will never notice, as long as theres food on the table, pretty wife next to em, and happy healthy kids. I know you've been working to vocalize how you feel with him, and that's awesome. But there is a whole bunch of guys who the severity of the situation is NEVER gonna sink in to until THEIR life is drastically altered or changed. As long as life goes on as usual, they can get away with the ostrich w head in sand routine, and go on as usual, and certainly never notice how you're faring emotionally. So I' sure he is ...... that you left. But lets hope that most of that is just cause his routine is upset, and once it sinks in that suddenly house is silent, wife is gone, and happy healthy kid is nowhere to be found.... maybe at that point he'll sit down and take a really close look at what he is and is not willing to lose, and what he's willing to do to ensure that he doesn't lose it (and thus upset his ordered universe). AND lets hope that all the things you've been saying to him.. now he's revisiting them and reevaluating how serious you are about a change needing to happen. So hoping after a bit, he reaches a new awareness of what you mean to him, and what he's willing to do to keep you, and from now on keep you happy. Anyway, hon.. I'm pulling for you! Whether your path is with him or without him in the end, I'm rooting for you and the little guy!
Off topic, but I just wanted to defend some of the guys around here. Take mod, for example. Always subtle. Always refined. Always understated. And eso, and uh, me. Look around. I think you will find many very sensitive males around here.
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Ho.ly. tar. That is the coolest video I think I've ever seen. LOVE the visuals and the modern rockabilly costuming, and that lomo filter is amazing visually. And I Luuurve that song! Ok, so I'm thinking I haven't fallen this in love with song at first hearing since like tracy chapman 'fast cars'. That is sooo fun! Thanks for posting that!
And Turtle, you are 100% correct. I've met many amazing nuanced sensitive males as well. But was taking a guess based on other stuff she's said that her hub falls into the other category. Sorry, boys! I thought I qualified that with 'some men' but of course not all of you guys fall into that. lol Just like not all women are nags... but boy, I've met my fair share of them, too. rofl
And Turtle, you are 100% correct. I've met many amazing nuanced sensitive males as well. But was taking a guess based on other stuff she's said that her hub falls into the other category. Sorry, boys! I thought I qualified that with 'some men' but of course not all of you guys fall into that. lol Just like not all women are nags... but boy, I've met my fair share of them, too. rofl
Not sure if you're joking or not there, so, well played sir. lol
I took it as literal. You're definitely a manly man with the cutesy comeons and stuff, mod, but I've heard some of your responses to girly trauma, and you've been very sensitive and kind. Ha! So whatdaya' think about that? lol You're a sensitive guy whether you realize it or not.
Mrs, I had the beginning of that gorillaz song as my ringer for a while. That's a great one, too.
Wait a sec... is that de la soul? Like the de la soul from the 90s? NO WAY. I did NOT know that. Gawd, where the heck did they disappear to for 15 years?
Wait a sec... is that de la soul? Like the de la soul from the 90s? NO WAY. I did NOT know that. Gawd, where the heck did they disappear to for 15 years?
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