Vaping requires a little bit of effort on the part of the user, as it comes with a relatively steep learning curve. It is easy to get overwhelmed by all the options, acronyms, technobabble, and quirks that come with electronic gear. Granted, nothing is easier than pulling out a cigarette, lighting it, smoking it, and tossing away the ....... BUT...
"Too much time" to research a way of potentially freeing yourself from real cigarettes is 110% worth it, to me. I'm sorry it's not working out for you. It definitely sounds like the delivery device you have attached to your battery. All delivery devices, whether they're wicking systems like clearomizers, polyfill systems like cartomizer tanks, or dripping or RBA atomizers, all of them come with a little bit of required research, and it's up to you to figure them out (and there are multiple blogs, websites, and Youtube videos, etc., out there).
"But, I shouldn't have to!" is just an excuse for laziness and entitlement. I hate to sound rude, and I apologize if it came across that way, but a chance to extend your health and your life should be more than enough reason for someone to figure something out... And it not only affects you, but your family and friends around you.
There is a trade-off when it comes to vaping, unfortunately. You get "x" with this device, but not "y". You get "y" with this device, but not "x".
The best way I can describe it is like the way an older friend of mine described finding the right woman (or man) for you: "Find the person who confuses you the LEAST, and stick with that."