I started smoking at 18... Around a pack a day, on an ever-increasing trajectory and I too have some mental and physical limitations. I will say, I tried everything but Chantix and hypnosis (manly not that because I am un-hypnotizable, otherwise I would have). Despite my ever worsening health, I don't think *I* or anyone else expected me to quit (although my docs were growing ever more urgent about it.)
I really was very, very close to COPD at the age of 42, and spent most of the last 18 months until I began vaping with pneumonia and increasingly awful, upsetting treatments. I think I finally caved when the NP I saw told me, "You can stop smoking, otherwise it's "evil abx with horrid side effects and more steroids....." Well, I went home still smoking but REALLY thought about that. I had horrible side effects from the meds and I've been terrified of COPD since the first time I saw someone with an oxygen tank and asked (not them) what that was all about. Slowly drowning over a decade held less and less appeal. I was a 3 ppd smoker by then and had to wear "adult undergarments" during that time as I was coughing THAT much. Just for those of you who may have stopped early enough-- I'm pretty sure you don't want to end up in "adult undergarments."
Things like kind of started sinking in, my smoking then vaping son actually quit vaping (successfully) and gifted me his setups, and I started thinking very hard about what a bad influence my smoking had been on him and HOW could I not try vaping one more time, when my 20 year old kid could QUIT completely and I couldn't even vape successfully.... Well, he was a sub0hm vaper and I couldn't make the gear work for me (I had MTL dual used in the past, but had gone back to just smoking) I arrived here, the rest was history.
I didn't believe I could quit. I was fairly certain I couldn't. But I kept learning and trying things, until one day, I had my first smoke free day. I nearly died of shock, I mean, it was unpleasant but NOTHING like quitting cold turkey is (I've done it once when I was pregnant, but I don't have that motivator any more).
I don't really care as much about the financial savings (although treating COPD is expensive and horrible) but MAN. I can breathe again, I don't cough, I don't smell, and I can wear regular underwear as I'm no longer trying to cough out dead lung tissue.
Not only that, vaping has a ripple effect! I don't think my husband expected *I* could quit either, and once I did began "cold turkey" experiments and other cessation experiments, and I think really did not want to be a vaper. I eventually just shut up about it and kept vaping, and he is in his first week of vaping (with about 4--5 cigarettes a day, yet) but he has found it really enjoyable compared to past attempts (he did gain my knowledge he wanted "tobacco" flavors so he is all set up with NETs and WTA.... And, admits that vaping has come SO far from the early days when we tried those dripper kits when things were somewhat new.
Vaping has not just saved my life, it is helping family members and friends (have gifted a couple setups in RL) and it's amazing. I can breathe, sleep (coughing fits would wake me up) move faster, do more, smell better, and most miraculously, vaping allows me to keep my nicotine (which I really feel my brain does need) and STILL enjoy life, having a hand-to mouth habit, and enjoyment of LIFE which no other replacement strategy has given me.
My son used to tell me as a kid, "I am going to start smoking then quit, just to show you it can be done." LOL, he did in fact do that (not for his youthful motivations, I'm pretty certain) but he was right.
Like Eskie said, I'm not out of the woods from a smoking-related dx, but I actually believe even if I got one, I would remain a vaper. Can't change the past, but I can sure move on from it...
I owe vaping so much I am just going to stop there. But I am so thankful for vaping ECF, and the wonderful people in my life (including my doctors, who were AWESOME) who helped make this happen for me.... I would never in a million years have believed a) I could STOP and b) I could be HAPPY stopped. Detox wasn't fun, it never is, but everything thereafter has been
Anna