I hope I can say something that will help rbrooky. When I first started vaping in November 2012, I loved vaping, but I still craved a regular cigarette. I'd enjoy a nice vaping session and then cap it off with a cig. After dinner was when I enjoyed a cigarette the most.
I found forums very encouraging, and obviously you are reading and posting to find support. One of the things I read back in 2012 was that your body handles nicotine from vaping differently than it handles nicotine from smoking. Until your body trusts that it's getting its nic, your body will still want its nic the old trusted way. The stinkies deliver tobacco with additives that enhance or deepen the experience of satiation.
If you read a lot, you'll see that some people find it harder than others to achieve full smoking cessation, even while fully enjoying their new obsession with vaping. It makes sense that it's harder for some than for others, even with the best smoking cessation device ever known, because we're all different.
I think the best advice has already been given here. Be comfortable with dual use, never giving up. Whenever you can consciously make the decision to vape instead of smoke, make that decision. You are in control. You can change your mind if you need to. Back in November 2012, with dual use, I smoked less and less. I simply started to want cigarettes less and less. I wanted to vape all my new flavors, learn how to pack and travel with my vape gear, etc. I kept reading the forums. I made small conscious decisions along the way, whether to vape or smoke, always knowing I was boss, and could change my mind if I needed to. I needed cigarettes less and less. My body did adjust to the new form of nicotine delivery, to the point that the day came, the Saturday morning after Thanksgiving 2012, when I knew I was having my last cigarette. That doesn't mean it was any easier that day. I still had to get through a day of cigarette detox, or withdrawal, with the angel on one shoulder saying "you can do it", and the demon on the other shoulder saying "you want a cigarette, and you can have a cigarette". I persevered through a long, hard day, vaping my brains out, but when I went to bed, I knew I was a nonsmoker. From that day to this, five years later, I've not had another cigarette, nor a really fierce craving. The first few months, when someone walked by with a lit cigarette, the smell was inviting, and made me feel emotionally a little regretful, but I was not beset with shrieking demon tobacco cravings. Now I never crave cigarettes at all.
Happy new year, and good cheer, good luck, courage and success.