It's not entirely about safety.
"My vape is safe so I can do it when I want, where I want. If people smell it or are annoyed by it then that's their problem, not mine."
That's your attitude? Then you might also be a ......... too.
My attitude, which I know to be DC2's attitude is vape in public with respect. Try as you might to spin that into inherent disrespect, and this thread will go on for another 50 pages to help you understand what that means. During the time that 50 pages is being written DC2, myself and others will be vaping in public with respect.
Vaping is nothing more than another, safer way to mimic smoking, that's precisely why it exists in the first place, so why are you so surprised that people think it is, indeed, smoking?
I would be surprised if people thought I was smoking right after I am getting over the idea that someone actually noticed me vaping in their presence when I have done so well in 2.5 years of vaping in public out of people's presence.
Many of us that vape in public have many stories of it being socially acceptable. Of talking with fellow patrons who have no idea what that thingamajig is. Who then learn what it is and are totally cool with it being done around them. I have this experience, but because of the semi-noticeable change in ANTZ gaming on this, I generally choose not to vape in crowded spaces. But there are many spaces in public where there are zero people around, and as usual I cite a hospital as perfect example of this. The place where I will vape in front of known non-vapers in an enclosed space is my friends' houses. I ask them periodically if they smell it, and it is very rare that they say they do. I have friends that are very ANTZ like when it comes to smoking, and yet with regards to the social aspect of vaping, are very vape friendly.
But in this type of discussion, the assumption from the non-public vaping vaper is that all non-vaping strangers will be annoyed, irritated and despise that their space is being violated by the 'smoke' that permeates the entire structure of the building. IOW, they are carrying the torch for the ANTZ side of this equation.
So, they vape only where smoking is permitted. Except when it comes to their own house and own car, then it is okay, because it just is. And they'll vape outdoors wherever they want, even if there is a policy against it or even if they don't know what the policy is, because it is just okay to vape there. And some of them have indoor places where, for them personally, it is okay, in that specific location. All other indoor locations, especially those that others claim is okay in their experience, is certainly not okay, because it just isn't. Why is that? They play the "respect" card, but then somehow have extreme trouble understanding that same concept when someone mentions the words, "vape everywhere with respect."