Just a rant. Sorry for the length...but am I in the wrong?
No, you were in the right, both legally... and socially IMO.
Unresolved issues, kept hidden by a gluttony of media and busy work, perpetuated and propogated as reasonable reactions, growing and worming it's way from one mind to the next, justifyable through the shared sense of validation it brings them.
Here in NC, there's been a total ban on smoking at indoor establishments (unless you like hanging out at the VFW or Lions Club, which are exempt). I have a friend who vapes and he tells me that people get ANGRY... especially when they find out it's NOT a cigarette. "That's not fair!"