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Speaking of dreams, I don't have many of them - or least I try to relax enough before sleeping that I don't have any.
I rarely recall my dreams. Occasionally, I recall them a few minutes after waking, but POOF, they're gone shortly after that.

Lucid dreaming is an interesting topic.
 

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No NCC. I don't judge people. I'm not blameless. I just don't understand why ppl are unhappily married. Either they're happily married, or they shouldn't be together sucking each others energy down.

Maybe it depends on the woman. At her age, perhaps she was in tune with times past when women stayed home and ran the household. Some women don't have the occupational and educational skills to get work and support themselves. And then, of course, if there are children, it could be really rough. I think they're afraid. I've also heard that when in a relationship that long, ppl learn to depend on each other - even if it depending on the other spouse to make one miserable. I know, it's sad. I've heard the statistics that 50% of Americans are divorced and only about 20% are happily married. That's hard for me to believe.
 

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I tend to take women under my wing. My assistant at work is a woman. Tiny thing, about five feet tall and I'm not sure she tips 100 pounds. Good worker. I buy her lunch frequently. Not my type, she's an admitted man hater, and that is a problem I overlook because she's a good worker, and nice when she's not "in a mood".

My previous helper nabbed me for a $300 loan before she wigged out and got herself fired. I have learned over the years that a loan to a woman is best considered a gift, never expect repayment.
 

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I rarely recall my dreams. Occasionally, I recall them a few minutes after waking, but POOF, they're gone shortly after that.

Lucid dreaming is an interesting topic.

I've never read much about lucid dreaming. I did hear once that that was how the sewing machine was invented though. I suppose Self can produce solutions in a dream format if one has asked Self for a solution to a problem. But like I said, I've never really read much about lucid dreaming.

Most dreams come from the rem state of sleep - a very light sleep with the brain waves running about 4-8 Hz. The ideal Delta sleep state (brain waves @ 1/2-4 Hz) has no dreams.
 

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My previous helper nabbed me for a $300 loan before she wigged out and got herself fired. I have learned over the years that a loan to a woman is best considered a gift, never expect repayment.

I once borrowed a small amount of money from one of my best friends (not a BF). Unfortunately, he died before I could pay him back. I donated money to the coordinator of his funeral arrangements to make up for it.

Maybe the helper was w/o income for a while and couldn't pay you back, then was too embarrassed to if it took her a while to get back in the black.
 

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One time I had a BF I dated for 2 yrs. We broke up, but we moved to San Diego together and roommated in a 2-bdrm apartment. We never slept together in the year we lived together. I started dating as soon as I moved to SD, and when my date picked me up from my home with the ex there, it hurt the ex too badly. I didn't repeat it. I met my date elsewhere after that.
 

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Thanks. That's great!! :w00t: On meat and veggies too, not just packaged food?

Umm...I'll take one of those dreams, much better than mine. :D

For JaG:


JaG, I'm sorry, I was wrong. I thought I clearly remembered reading an article about how to recognize GMO labeling, but since I've dug through my eMail, I find that it is to go onto the ballot for 21012.

Here is the link:

Label GMOs, Genetically Modified Foods - California Committee For The Right to Know - A 2012 Ballot Initiative Campaign
 

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I tend to take women under my wing.

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I have learned over the years that a loan to a woman is best considered a gift, never expect repayment

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Chat ya later, JaG, enjoy your dinner and the rest of your evening. Sorry I haven't dropped in lately - got tied up with the other forum and didn't manage my time efficiently.

ha! tell'em over there we refuse to share!

flyby and a good morning to keep the beach on my radar!
 

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Good Wednesday morning all....just got back from spending the night at the casino. We won!!! I won $140 and hubs won $110.....so Jag if we can find an island for $250, we can go for it.:laugh:

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This is the one I favor, but you all will have to chip in a little to increase the $250......maybe a couple million each.....then we can frolick in the RW.:)
 
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