No NCC. I don't judge people. I'm not blameless. I just don't understand why ppl are unhappily married. Either they're happily married, or they shouldn't be together sucking each others energy down.
Maybe it depends on the woman. At her age, perhaps she was in tune with times past when women stayed home and ran the household. Some women don't have the occupational and educational skills to get work and support themselves. And then, of course, if there are children, it could be really rough. I think they're afraid. I've also heard that when in a relationship that long, ppl learn to depend on each other - even if it depending on the other spouse to make one miserable. I know, it's sad. I've heard the statistics that 50% of Americans are divorced and only about 20% are happily married. That's hard for me to believe.