Loveline: Am I too open and honest.. with women? WWYD?

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He quoted my post, asked me OMG DID YOU REALLY TYPE THAT, YOU DID!! and you then said HE DOESN'T KNOW and I asked you if you really think you're talking so far above me and you said "yup"

You're merely a tangential segue into the real conversation being had.

And I'll tell you which he is, wise or moronic. He is wise, with a side of idealism.
 

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Wow... Is this for real or some character development process for a stalker/slasher-script?

I suggest "THE" go in the direction of:

"mm-hmm, I reckon I need to get me some women, mmmm. Mama used ter bring 'em to me with mustard on 'em, mm-hmm. I like mustard mmm..."​
Seriously, I can't figure out if this dude is the most delusional, pathetic human ever or just thinks it's fun to yank chains.

Either way, he's clearly spent too much time yankin' something else.
 

THE

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Wow... Is this for real or some character development process for a stalker/slasher-script?

I suggest "THE" go in the direction of:

"mm-hmm, I reckon I need to get me some women, mmmm. Mama used ter bring 'em to me with mustard on 'em, mm-hmm. I like mustard mmm..."​
Seriously, I can't figure out if this dude is the most delusional, pathetic human ever or just thinks it's fun to yank chains.

Either way, he's clearly spent too much time yankin' something else.


You'll probably never even meet women as successful and beautiful as I have actually had.. Say something constructive, or say something against something specific I've said .. or it's just more BS

I love how men who don't like me usually call me "dude".. I must be doing something right, dude.
 

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I didn't say be a wuss. Woman can't stand wuss's. They want a man. Really all depends what you are looking for. I talk to women all the time and if you start to sugar coat things in the beginning it's bad news because it shows your a wuss but after a while woman like to be complimented. Like for instance I will tell women. Hey looking beautiful as always. Now that's not sugar coating but every once in a while you are just telling them hey I think your beautiful and it builds comfort with them. Comfort is key. You want to build comfort with a woman its very important. It's like the 2nd to 3rd step in getting to know a woman.


Yeah.. read what I've said... making a woman comfortable is the key to making them pleased. You're also right that women don't like "wusses" as you put it. When you're going on about sugar coating, you're making a clumsy attempt at trying to say women like to be appreciated. You obviously have to fake that part. I don't.

A woman knows when she gets a compliment from me, she's earned it. And that makes them mean something.
 

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I'm not really going to go there except to say no guy really knows a lot about women. But if you knew how many women I had slept with you'd probably be shocked. If you knew how many woman my friends had slept with you'd be even more shocked.

Yeah I use to sleep around in my younger days, too. Not something to be proud of. I wish I hadn't, now. Be proud of the caliber of them. And I'm not talking about body types, but actual quality of the women as the people they are. You won't impress me by "having game" or "notches in your tree", pal.

Not many men know a-lot about women because not many men care to. I'm not saying they're not frustrating and it takes a-lot of time and work to learn to understand what they want and need .. especially when they're upset and throwing verbal punches in the air .. and you almost have to start over with each one you come to know, because they're all so different

I love women. They're the ultimate challenge and the ultimate reward.
 

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son et, hate to spoil your party, but we're not robots. There's no "operation manual."

I don't approach men, or women, like building a deck. And I don't respect people who approach me that way.

I can always tell. It's not hard.

You're right. Women have radar for clowns who think they have so much game. Women who don't are called sluts. The guy obviously enjoys those.
 
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