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Women want to be treated well, but most do not want someone who will not stand up for himself when he is right. Sometimes, men misconstrue this, thinking that women go for "bad boys" and dump the nice guys. That is not true of mature women past the high school years. If someone always sacrifices for another and forgoes his own needs, it is hard to respect that person. A good relationship allows both people to explore outside friends (NOT of the sexual nature) as well as their own relationship. If you want to know why that is necessary, look at older women who have lost their husbands. Those who have a circle of friends outside their marriage do much better as single women than those who were solely committed to the relationship and mutual friends. When my father died, I saw my mom deal with the loneliness. She had no friends outside the marriage, and the couple friends my parents had drifted away rather quickly. I made up my mind then that having girlfriends was vital to survival. We make way too much of self worth determined by being a part of a couple. If you cannot be happy alone, it is virtually impossible to be happy with someone or make someone else happy. Some guys are too insecure to allow this. Jealousy is a deal breaker and the sure end to an otherwise good relationship.
Yeah, sorry Mooby, that wasn't for you. And I didn't mean to single anybody out, Nico, but....sorry about that. My big mouth ran away with my brain. No offense intended. Like I said, I believe you're decent guys, but from your posts, sometimes you come off a bit rough. That's the problem with the written word - unless you're friggin' Shakespeare, the tone can be misconstrued.
I'll think I'll crawl over to the Women's Room now............
first off, where is this decent woman, decent women dont cheat, they just leave, and damn right it shows disrespect, about as much as someone cheating, shes a .....!
croc skin on me boots mate., 
... yes im intoxicated.., annnd?? I'll take "i hate that ***** for $5000", DOUBLE JEOPARDY! WOooOOoo
... yes im intoxicated.., annnd?? I'll take "i hate that ***** for $5000", DOUBLE JEOPARDY! WOooOOoo
ehh.., well i've been doing better pplz.., i found a new lady friend and so far she is exactly what i've been needing these past couple weeks.
p.s. she makes the best damn lasagna in the world <33
p.s. she makes the best damn lasagna in the world <33
I am so sorry, Nico.
I am in Concord, and have a 510 atty here for you if you want it. PM me if you do and we can arrange it.
Take it easy. Go ahead and cry if it makes you feel better. It usually makes me feel better if I cry.
Mooby,
So sorry for your experience. I had a deep depression last year after my dog Chance (in my avitar) died. He was my best friend for over 8 years.
BTW, I love your reviews and have been helped so much by them!
There are better times ahead for both of you, so just hang on.
I am in Concord, and have a 510 atty here for you if you want it. PM me if you do and we can arrange it.
Take it easy. Go ahead and cry if it makes you feel better. It usually makes me feel better if I cry.
Mooby,
So sorry for your experience. I had a deep depression last year after my dog Chance (in my avitar) died. He was my best friend for over 8 years.
BTW, I love your reviews and have been helped so much by them!
There are better times ahead for both of you, so just hang on.
hey......., if you guys didnt know i was banned for a week.,but its awesome to be back . =]
Just saw this thread for the first time, and this post made me choke on some vape. OMG, too funny.
well... I am officially over my ex... Moved on to better and finer things. =] ., haha. Hope everyone is doing well!
-Nico Aka Danny
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