hello ecf. this is kind of a strange post for me as i dont really reach out to others often as i dont have anyone to reach out too. ive noticed many people here are much wiser and older than myself so you guys would really be able to help me out.
so ive got this girlfriend who ive been dating for 8 months. things are...meh to say the least. we get along but shes got some problems and it gets in the way. she use to be a drug addict(......) and she still struggles with it from time to time as well as low self esteem and eating disorders. well she managed to get away from the drugs but from time to time still cuts herself or throws up. however she cheated on me once, she sent ..... to another guy on facebook and i forgave her. today she set me up, she got a new number and pretended to be another girl and said she wanted to have sex with me. i told this pretend girl nah i dont even know who you are, however i never mentioned i was in a relationship and i did agree to meet up to do something like grab a cup of coffee because well i dont have any friends (seriously i never do anything with anyone). i found out it was my girlfriend and she accused me of cheated or intending to cheat and when i explained it to her she said i was a lier and a shady person and just changing my story. i tried to tell her look i love you but she doesnt want to hear it. theirs also the problem that she may or may not be pregnant with my child, we arent sure 1/3 tests came up positive and the other 2 negative. she said she wants to keep it but im 21 and not ready for a kid. i dont even have an associates degree yet and wont for another year.
from an outside view id say leave her theirs plenty of people to choose from, however my heart says otherwise.
im sorry i know you guys probably dont give a .... about my problems i just have nobody else to reach out too. my mom doesnt understand and her answer for everything is im going to kick you out of the house and i dont have any friends to talk to as ive kept to myself my entire life. really the only people ive got is ecf, yes its sad but ive met some good people here.
thank you in advance honestly this means alot to me. ive even made a special e juice for my troubles today, cory's special stressed berry blend 36mg of nic when i usually vape 12mg. also accompanied with 2 packs of cigarettes, my first cigarette in months.
so ive got this girlfriend who ive been dating for 8 months. things are...meh to say the least. we get along but shes got some problems and it gets in the way. she use to be a drug addict(......) and she still struggles with it from time to time as well as low self esteem and eating disorders. well she managed to get away from the drugs but from time to time still cuts herself or throws up. however she cheated on me once, she sent ..... to another guy on facebook and i forgave her. today she set me up, she got a new number and pretended to be another girl and said she wanted to have sex with me. i told this pretend girl nah i dont even know who you are, however i never mentioned i was in a relationship and i did agree to meet up to do something like grab a cup of coffee because well i dont have any friends (seriously i never do anything with anyone). i found out it was my girlfriend and she accused me of cheated or intending to cheat and when i explained it to her she said i was a lier and a shady person and just changing my story. i tried to tell her look i love you but she doesnt want to hear it. theirs also the problem that she may or may not be pregnant with my child, we arent sure 1/3 tests came up positive and the other 2 negative. she said she wants to keep it but im 21 and not ready for a kid. i dont even have an associates degree yet and wont for another year.
from an outside view id say leave her theirs plenty of people to choose from, however my heart says otherwise.
im sorry i know you guys probably dont give a .... about my problems i just have nobody else to reach out too. my mom doesnt understand and her answer for everything is im going to kick you out of the house and i dont have any friends to talk to as ive kept to myself my entire life. really the only people ive got is ecf, yes its sad but ive met some good people here.
thank you in advance honestly this means alot to me. ive even made a special e juice for my troubles today, cory's special stressed berry blend 36mg of nic when i usually vape 12mg. also accompanied with 2 packs of cigarettes, my first cigarette in months.