My mom is a lot like your dad as an ex-smoker that hates on smokers/smoking but she has been surprisingly accepting of my vapingwhen ever she decides to go on a rant about smoking, mainly to/around smokers, I kindly remind her that as a previous smoker of 40-50 years who only stopped because she had a heart attack... she lost the right to say anything about it at all.
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In my opinion I think the Heart Attack gives her every right. Last August I lost someone very close to me who died of Lung Cancer that metastasized to her liver, lungs and brain after 5 years of being cancer free. She originally gave up cold turkey when she was diagnosed with emphysema. Over the years she never biotched at me for smoking but she did say me that I do not want to go through what she was going through.
Till this day I still say I quit for me but it did have some to do with it.