So Frustrating when nonsmoking husband just dont understand...

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DeniseN

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I wanted to thank you all so much for your the support you all showed me with this problem and my venting this week.

Also, wanted to let you all know that he came and talked to me and said that he was in the wrong and he understands how I feel about smoking and that he shouldnt have said the things he did. He said he worries about me and does want to see me start to decrease my nicotine but if I want to keep my pv he wont fight me on it.

Now not to say he will go and by me all the pv's I want of course we cant afford that who can lol. But I am glad this is over. Just wanted to let you all know, you were there when I needed to vent, so I wanted to let you know that all is good again. :)
 

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Sounds to me like he got exactly what he wanted.

You're happy to have what you have, and you're no longer talking about getting a new electronic cigarette. To be honest, that kind of pisses me off a bit.

PM me your address and I will buy you a Bartleby.

I'm not kidding, I have money, it's no big deal to me.
But I want you to have a Bartleby.

And I don't want him to win this one.
 

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It seems like that is always what people ask...it was the first thing my girlfriends parents asked me...my brother and mother...the same...coworkers...

Just enjoy yourself and ignore it. I have 5 PVs...I enjoy them...I'm going to keep it up till I decide I don't want to do it anymore...if I ever decide that.
 

DeniseN

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Sounds to me like he got exactly what he wanted.

You're happy to have what you have, and you're no longer talking about getting a new electronic cigarette. To be honest, that kind of pisses me off a bit.

PM me your address and I will buy you a Bartleby.

I'm not kidding, I have money, it's no big deal to me.
But I want you to have a Bartleby.

And I don't want him to win this one.

I pm'd you to let you know how much I really really appreciate your offer, that is so amazingly wonderfuly of you. However I cant do that. I can make do with what I have really. I really really appreciate the offer though thats really great of you to offer and made my day, to read this today. Thank you so much..:)
 

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It seems like that is always what people ask...it was the first thing my girlfriends parents asked me...my brother and mother...the same...coworkers...

Just enjoy yourself and ignore it. I have 5 PVs...I enjoy them...I'm going to keep it up till I decide I don't want to do it anymore...if I ever decide that.

I have to agree with this completely, thank God my gf at least pretends to be excited for me and my PV adventure (with the occasional scolding about the few analogs I still smoke, which I ignore).

You made a decision for YOU and YOUR health, and only YOU have to deal with it. So the only person's opinion about your vaping YOU should be interested in is YOURS.

Hopefully, in time, he will come to let that ignorance pass (no offense intended here :)), and come to terms with YOUR decision, and let it be (or encourage YOUR decision for YOUR health).

BTW, my ex was on disability, and I know exactly how bad those checks SUCK, I feel for you on that one. If your interested, I've got a spare BLU kit laying around I'm not using (not sure if that's your cup O' tea, some like the L88B, some don't), feel free to PM me your addy and I'll send it to you :)
 
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DeniseN

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Douglas, Ga.
I have to agree with this completely, thank God my gf at least pretends to be excited for me and my PV adventure (with the occasional scolding about the few analogs I still smoke, which I ignore).

You made a decision for YOU and YOUR health, and only YOU have to deal with it. So the only person's opinion about your vaping YOU should be interested in is YOURS.

Hopefully, in time, he will come to let that ignorance pass (no offense intended here :)), and come to terms with YOUR decision, and let it be (or encourage YOUR decision for YOUR health).

BTW, my ex was on disability, and I know exactly how bad those checks SUCK, I feel for you on that one. If your interested, I've got a spare BLU kit laying around I'm not using (not sure if that's your cup O' tea, some like the L88B, some don't), feel free to PM me your addy and I'll send it to you :)

Thank you so much for the offer as well but really I'm okay with what I got right now. You guys are all so wonderful to offer. Everyone here at ECF seem so great I am so glad I found this place to hang out at. I really want to thank you though for the offer I really do appreciate it. I am good for now though The kit I have is getting me through for now. :)
 
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