Thats exactly what i told hubby bday in nov, anniversary in dec, xmas, bam all in one present that benefits both of us. But i still cant bring myself to tell him yet what that cost! I have no idea when he ports, he is on a sub, so no email or anything while he is under. Then he will just port, and he is one of those guys that checks the bank acct while hes calling home!
But with him not smoking theres so much of my smoking that was an issue..
I smoked in the house when he was at work, but the house still smelled like cigs most of the time, couldnt watch movies together cuz id want to stop to go have a smoke, brushing my teeth all the time just to kiss, so i was like forget kissing im brushing too much lol.
He would comment on my hair smelling like smoke.
When i was stressed i basically lived on the porch just chain smoking away, rain or shine. We rarely rode in the same vehicle.cuz yeah i have to smoke and drive. Coffee and a smoke, dinner then smoke, ohnwait let me go have a smoke first. Yeah ill be ther just let me finish this smoke first.... Hmmm maybe he wont mind afterall... Ill just maybe have to remind him from time to time
Honestly as long as you are not really hurting yourself financially and get control of the spending I doubt he is going to blow too big a gasket. If anything spin it as a positive thing for your relationship.