So We Had A Fight

[Infojunkie]

And then I bought smokes.

And it did make me feel better, for a bit. Now I feel like .... for smoking. I bought smokes from some gas station guy in a little air lock box. I felt like a drug addict.

And now I'm smoking my face off with analogs because we had a fight.

What do you do in the face of relationship conflict? Apparently I walk 20 mins each way in the cold to buy smokes. vaping didn't help....I tried. I really did try.

 

[hairball]

Get yourself a bottle of 36mg juice for those "I have to fight with a person" times. Keep a cartomizer filled with it and carry it on you at all times. The higher nic will cut the "heated moment" down considerably. I keep a bottle just in case I have one of those days or things are going great times. Throw the smokes away and give it a shot. The worst case is that you'll be walking back to the gas station. On the way, vape the 36mg and hopefully it will make you turn around before you get there.

 

[VAPOINSANO]

Get yourself a bottle of 36mg juice for those "I have to fight with a person" times. Keep a cartomizer filled with it and carry it on you at all times. The higher nic will cut the "heated moment" down considerably. I keep a bottle just in case I have one of those days or things are going great times. Throw the smokes away and give it a shot. The worst case is that you'll be walking back to the gas station. On the way, vape the 36mg and hopefully it will make you turn around before you get there.

chin up ,infojunkie,

sorry to hear about both of these problems you have just had!
dont really know which is worse really?
both temporary setbacks to be sure,i hope!!

very good advice about 36mg nic !

it doesn't take anything for me really fight wise,
or any specifics,
i still have special moments
where i feel like im goin well insane
w/o a cigarette!

when this happens,
i do what hairball suggested!
or a bit higher nic for me?
seems the only thing that workz for me?

do not worry about the odd smokes you may have,
just remember to get back on that vaping asap
the slips do not matter at all.....

also ECF+members are always gonna be hear for you
to vent or support each other no matter what

good luck+do not beat yourself up to badly

now go make up with your opponent,
+have a vape for us

 

[Infojunkie]

Okay...I've been weaning myself down to 18mg....I've never vaped a 36mg. I think that would've helped. I was just/still am ...... off.

 

[inkedcanadian]

It's ok man.. I had the same problem a few weeks back.. it happens. Just get back to the vaping when you've calmed down.

 

[BlondieLocs]

I bought smokes from some gas station guy in a little air lock box. I felt like a drug addict.

That cracked me up. I have actually never even seen one of those IRL.

But like the others said, don't beat yourself up about it. Smoke happens. And you'll get to the point eventually (like I am now) where those analogs just taste like crap, and you're praying that the damn postman comes soon because you just can't stand the taste of the analogs.

As far as what I do in a relationship conflict... I pour myself a drink. Then I throw it at him. (Yes, I really did that last time. Haha.)

 

[BlondieLocs]

Okay...I've been weaning myself down to 18mg....I've never vaped a 36mg. I think that would've helped. I was just/still am ...... off.

Definitely would have helped. I vape 30-36 myself now, but when I first started it was at 18. When I was stressed I'd grab a 24.

 

[Infojunkie]

chin up ,infojunkie,

sorry to hear about both of these problems you have just had!
dont really know which is worse really?
both temporary setbacks to be sure,i hope!!

very good advice about 36mg nic !

it doesn't take anything for me really fight wise,
or any specifics,
i still have special moments
where i feel like im goin well insane
w/o a cigarette!

when this happens,
i do what hairball suggested!
or a bit higher nic for me?
seems the only thing that workz for me?

do not worry about the odd smokes you may have,
just remember to get back on that vaping asap
the slips do not matter at all.....

also ECF+members are always gonna be hear for you
to vent or support each other no matter what

good luck+do not beat yourself up to badly

now go make up with your opponent,
+have a vape for us

BBM...are you a writer?

 

[inkedcanadian]

but when I first started it was at 18. When I was stressed I'd grab a 24.

thats pretty much what ive been at since starting 6-7 months ago.

 

[Infojunkie]

Definitely would have helped. I vape 30-36 myself now, but when I first started it was at 18. When I was stressed I'd grab a 24.

Okay...I need to have big nic for anticipated fights. Good to know. We should have a girly thread.

 

[BlondieLocs]

We should have a girly thread.

A "girly" thread??? LOL What does that mean?

 

[Swede]

One sec, let me ask my wife.......

 

[Swede]

She has no idea.......

I just asked her


Swede

 

[Infojunkie]

A "girly" thread??? LOL What does that mean?

Bows, ribbons...I think? Isn't that girly?

Wait......boy toys....to be decided.

 

[Infojunkie]

I'll go first...Viggo Mortensen

 

[icemanx3]

Are you kidding? Ain't nothing wrong with a little analog action after that. Hit them and have no regrets. That's what I love about this planet, the sun always comes back up and starts a new day. Even if tomorrow sucks...there's the next. And, ECF is here with a 1000 members who probably had a similar evening. I've been through a lot my friend, and I know for me it was insane and nothing anyone could say would make me feel better...until later. I give you credit to be able to come on here and let us know what you are going through.

Good luck and don't worry!

ice

 

[BlondieLocs]

Hit them and have no regrets.

LOL... I had to read that twice. Thought you were talking about hitting the hubby!

 

[BlondieLocs]

She has no idea.......

I just asked her


Swede

LMAO. Thought you meant you were going to ask your wife if you could participate in a "girly thread"...

 

[icemanx3]

LOL... I had to read that twice. Thought you were talking about hitting the hubby!

Wowsa! Actually, I didn't know if infojunkie was boy or girl, but to be SURE I'm clear, I mean hit those analogs with no regrets!!!!!!!

LOL!!!! Yikes!

ice

 

[BlondieLocs]