Been having a bad couple of weeks were i have been back on the death sticks. Costing a fortune smoking 35 a day. What makes it worse is I've got a great little collection of vapes and decent setup going to waste now. Any advice to get away from them. It's them first few on the morning with a cup of coffee what's the worst then it's like well I've had a few now and continue to smoke throughout the day. And the cycle repeats
Well, one thing, not all of us quit right away. I didn't. I took... six weeks or so?
One thing I started doing was making the smoking inconvenient. You know how, as a smoker, you have everything handy? Lighters and packs and ashtrays? I switched it around. The vaping stuff was handy. The cigs and all were in a kitchen cabinet. Yeah, if I just had to have a cig, I would let myself. But I had to go get everything outta the cabinet. Then put everything back.
And just sort of "turned the screws" a little more each week. Like I could have
a cig. In the kitchen. Standing there. No sitting on the couch or anything. Then go back to whatever I was working on at the time (home office thing, made it really easy to "slip" since I didn't even have to leave the office to smoke, it's my office and I got to set the rules).
But the vapor stuff was right next to me and convenient. I got to where I'd be in the middle of something and would vape like crazy to bring the urge to smoke down enough I could shove it aside and distract myself with what I was working on.
My next step was going to be "okay, you can have one, outside". And I live in Texas. Where summers can hit 100 easy these days (what's that, 38C or so?). Didn't have to though. I started finding e-liquids that worked well for me and tasted good and I started losing interest in the cigs.
Maybe you need to experiment a little more with your liquids. Like your nicotine level is too low so it's not killing the cravings well? Try something a little higher (don't go up a lot all at once, just a step). Maybe that'll help?
Try to find ways to disrupt the habit of smoking. I think I had the "morning cig with coffee" for a good month into vaping. Seems I could "coast" on vaping for some time but needed that first "boost" of nicotine. So I let myself do it. I just didn't let myself grab the pack and put it in easy reach. I had to get up and get one at a time.
I think, sometimes, the thought of a "dead stop" causes us smokers to actually panic. It's an addiction and often a long term habit and it's familiar and often quite comforting. Like the first cig with coffee is quite a ritual. That one took me a while to break. I liked those moments. I still catch myself thinking fondly of them. Don't want to go back but it's a kind of, "I miss that" feeling. Weird.
Try looking at your habits and disrupting them. Put the vapor stuff in the easy, convenient locations where the smoking stuff went and put the smoking in inconvenient places. Try not to think, "NO SMOKING EVER AGAIN" at this point. That can seem to cause a panic reaction.
Sometimes, you have to play mind games on yourself. To this day, I do not think of myself as having "quit smoking". I just don't happen to want one right now. Even right now, the idea of NEVER! AGAIN! causes some kind of rebellious feeling inside me. But if it's, "sure, any time, just go to the store, buy a pack, buy a lighter, buy an ashtray..." I start to think, "that's too much trouble, and the vapor is right here".
So I live in this weird state of being a smoker who just happens to prefer vaping right now. And "right now" keeps getting longer every day. Sounds goofy to write this all down but, well, it works for me so... shrug?
