There should be a law against men with decorating ideas!!! Sorry guys, but women are better at this, and we should be allowed to pick what we want without your buttinsky, outdated, poor choices, bad taste ideas.
Sd--my husband and I argued over everything when we built our house, and we did a lot of compromising. And to this day, I am sorry I caved when he insisted on carpet in the living room (probably cause that is what he grew up with.) I wanted hardwood then, and still wish it was hardwood. (But I did get my big front porch that he balked at.)
I am so jealous when a woman says to me...."Oh my husband doesn't get involved in the house decorating...I can do whatever I want.....Well la ti da, lady!! Mine has his nose stuck in everything....even with my
throw pillows. I wish you could have seen the way his apartment was decorated when I met him. It was absolutely the most awful thrown together mess I have ever seen, but now he thinks he is an interior decorator...so good luck getting your hardwood. I hope you stick to your guns.