OK.
I tend to be "logical" (Well, most of the time anyway). So....I have to say this, and I'll probably screw it up but here goes:
I understand AND AGREE with your feelings on closing down "our thing".
That said, logically, it doesn't matter. In other words, if someone out there likes the pre-vet concept, and wants to take it over and/or reinvent it...they can. Even though we close it down, some group of "New PVTers" could come along on Jan 1 and petition admin to start another group. And Admin could say..."Sure, we did it for those other people, why not this group?"
So it being "ours" or not is logically more of a date boundary than anything else. If Admin was sincere in the "Sure it can continue..just in the Lounge" thing, than it can continue if people want it.
The other aspect, being "embarrassed" about someone not taking up the challenge, is another emotional reaction that is an irrelevancy logically... the outcome will be....they have a new crew or they don't. Meh. We don't care either way since we bailed out.
All of that said, it is logical to consider a course of action where we just close it down and let someone else start something else if they choose. I just dropped the hint into the main message. It can be removed.