You're not alone QU1T, I feel the same way. What makes it worse maybe for me is that I've been around since April 2012. That means I've read threads about the dangers of vaping cotton, silica, rayon, high watts, low watts, plastic tanks, plated metal parts, brass, Kanthal, nickel, titanium, flavorings, dry burning ... and more.
After a while I realized the biggest problem with all this was the lack of solid data about what is safe to inhale when vaping combined with most people's inexperience with
the scientific method. I really like hard data, but even that is open to interpretation and personal bias unless it's really conclusive.
In the meantime I try to do my own research to the point that satisfies me and hope I don't go too far wrong. If I do make a mistake, well I did the best I could with what I had to work with and that's good enough for me.