Some people are going to expect or need something that approximates what they are trying to give up.
...the new vaper is too close to their last cigarette to accept something so alien when their brain is craving and expecting something so different.
Gawd, if I wasn't married, I think I'd be in love with you!

j/k!
Seriously, you seem to really get it! I love pastry with a passion, quite enjoy many fruits, pursue vanilla hand lotion with single-minded determination, and try like mad to not eat so much chocolate so I won't get fat and/or diabetic! But I DON'T WANT TO SMOKE/VAPE ANY OF 'EM!
I want tobacco! Bitter yet smooth tobacco that makes my throat and sinuses and whole mouth tingle, and clears out most food tastes completely! People keep telling me, your taste will change, well maybe it will, but NOT unless I can leave the stupid smoking things alone long enough to let it! And no, not Marlboros or Camels or ANYTHING menthol, I want a taste like a VA Slim, which is very smooth, but does have a bitter edge -- to me, marlboros are too sweet, Camels, meh, too dry and just kinda weird tasting, and menthol should be reserved for toothpaste, mouthwash, cough drops, York patties, and IcyHot muscle rub (which is called "death by peppermint" at my house, cause that stuff will take your breath away!).
I'm trying to find some of those liquids that have the tobacco absolute; from reading this thread and that other one about natural tobaccos, I think it's what might make a real difference in my ability to leave the stinkiweed alone. I checked out the altCigs mentioned in the natural tobaccos post, and their Bob's Krave Kutter sounds very promising. At the moment I'm awaiting a 5mL sample size of "Dirty Ashtray" from EC Blends, because that burning ashy taste is what I really want -- and frankly I don't find actual dirty ashtrays all that disgusting, just messy and dangerous if you accidentally set them on fire because they're so full of butts.

(IMO, it's not really "full" until there IS a fire hazard!) But if anyone knows of other sites/juices that do have this tobacco absolute, please tell me!
What I have is: a JoyeTech eRoll, which arrived yesterday, and last night, I went to a local B&M and got a [tobacco] flavor called "Oak Barrel Cider," which, after trying several others, I actually recognized as VERY like the smell of my VA Slims before they're lit, which makes me wonder if VA Slims tobacco is aged in oak, or treated with oak tannin or something; it's not the apple-cider flavor I recognized, but something more subtle. The problem is, although the smell is fairly tobacco-y, I don't get enough of that, I get mainly the apple-cider taste, and seldom much of a throat-hit -- only on the first drag I take on the eRoll is there much of a throat hit at all, and only when I get the good throat hit do I really get the taste/smell of tobacco. Would steeping increase the tobacco-y taste/smell, improve the throat hit, and generally make it more satisfying? Or would it make it only more apple-cidery, smoother, and less throat hit? It needs to be more... raw? More "careful how you hit that so you don't cough up a lung"... cause that's kinda how I am with my cigarettes; I have a mild case of asthma, so I smoke ultra-lights so that I *don't* cough up a lung with every drag, but the nice thing about VA Slims ultra-lights is that even with their mild smooth taste, they have a really good throat hit.
I guess I just need to know if steeping would make this Oak Barrel Cider more of what I want, or less...
Hope someone can help so I can really do this switch... I'm really tired of all the downsides of smoking, but at my wit's end for a realistically possible way of ditching them...
Thx!
Andria