what makes you think I give a rat's ... what it does to you?" Andria
Am I correct reading that you will move to a different part of the room though when asked? If so it lifts you many levels above people I have witnessed first hand (example from the bus earlier in this thread). I understand your point. I on the other hand don't wait to get asked. I try to avoid this confrontation. I have to say though, I might not be the first person whipping out my micro-coil genny, but when I see people vape in a bar and noone complains I most often will do it too.
Everything I said you completely missed... let me sum it up (already did it but I guess you didn't view my other posts)...
1. Where I'm from we don't have anything regulating where it can be done (they are trying to but hopefully not because they are trying to ban it in all public buildings including vape shops...!!!!)
2. When I say I don't care if it bothers people... I don't mean someone with authority (a "host") like management or similar... I was refering to some regular joe/jane that is "bothered" by it. You don't leave the store (that is stupid) you just walk away and vape away from them. Simple. If management or similar asks me to stop... I stop or leave.... simple.
3. I vape in front of children. I personally believe that if you shield your child from the world they will be more inclined on trying bad stuff and being more influenced. If you show yourself being truthful and explaining the world how and why it is... then you are a better parent for it. I was raised watching movies/games/etc on horror, blood and gore, violence, death, sex, drugs, etc... and have grown into a fairly successful man with a good life not doing drugs and never have I been inclined to violence or murder. It is the environment that you are raised in WITH proper guidance. A kid in the slums can either fall victim to society or grow past it... it is all prominently factored by GUIDANCE.
4. I was refering to second hand vapor... not nicotine from direct inhalation. I don't know how you misconstrued that...
It doesn't really have anything to do with vaping where smoking is banned, that's a strange misconstrual that neither side in this debate seems able to drop... It is to do with vaping where vaping is banned.
I don't have any argument with people who do it outside - banning vaping outside makes no sense whatsoever.
But people have the right to not want people to vape in their businesses, or the places they manage. They might not exercise that right for rational reasons, it really makes no difference.
There are people who vape in pubs etc, and when asked to stop put up a fight, or skulk away and try to keep doing it out of sight. They exist, incontrovertibly. I've seen then with my own eyes. I've been told about them by pub staff when I've asked if they mind if I vape. I've read accounts on the net, including an account *by a vaper* of having to ban vaping in the pub he manages, because people just refused to follow the rules he'd set about where and how you could do it.
These people create a bad impression of vapers among the general public. That makes it easier to ban it, even if only locally, because the general public's impression of things matters in democratic countries.
Sorry, but you don't get to say "Join CASAA! Our collective voice matters!" one minute and then "actually it has nothing to do with what the public thinks, it's all about taxes and corrupt pharmaceutical companies" the next.
So what I'm getting out of this:
People are still trying to control other people's actions.
Okay...why?..
That if you vape where smoking is banned, you will get vaping banned in the same places.
Okay.....
Now there's a man I could easily call MY FRIEND! Someone who had the ability to stand up for himself! Everyone today is so concerned about getting their feelings hurt or hurting someone else's feelings. Here's a thought how us vapers could probably learn to live with the rest of the bleeding hearts.........
Be Yourself, Do what YOU believe is right, and NO APOLOGIES for how you live YOUR life. If someone doesnt like you, screw 'em. They are probably not worthy of being your friend.
Andria, I too lost my dad to lung cancer due to smoking back in 2012. I feel your pain.
Either public lobbying, petitions, marches etc., and indeed democratic process matter, or they don't.
If they don't, a significant chunk of what CASAA does is pointless. If they do, then alienating the public is counterproductive.
You won't hear me arguing that corruption, taxes and vested interests aren't important factors (even some of the most important). But some people when presented with the suggestion that how individuals choose to vape influences our political outcome immediately cry "It has nothing to do with that, it's all about tobacco / pharmaceutical lobbying and taxes".
How was my statement turned into alienating the public?
This seems pretty straightforward to me.
Our actions don't matter against vested interests, right? They're too powerful, we are but individuals.
How many billions does CASAA have in the bank? I suggest you remove them from your signature if we, the mere public, don't matter.
Or start acting like we do, which would include acknowledging that the people who complain about pushy vapers have a point.
I'm getting confused -- what exactly is the argument?
We're all former (or present, in my own case) smokers, who have been unjustly made to feel like the very worst of criminals just because we had/have this dreadful addiction, or enjoy smoking/vaping, or both. So now we're vapers, yes, primarily to benefit our own health, but there has to be a small part of any vaper's mind that also considers how much less socially offensive vaping is, and is justly annoyed that the Smoke Nazis think it's the same thing.
I'm a rabid supporter of an individual's right to kill himself however he/she chooses -- however I acknowledge that businesses have the right to set whatever rules they deem necessary, and certainly individuals have the right to not have poisonous smoke/*perhaps*-toxic vapor in their home or workplace or vehicle -- I stopped smoking in my own home so my son would be healthier, and though he's now grown and gone, I still take it outside because I don't want my house and everything in it to smell like an ashtray.
It seems to me, though, that the real problem is that some easily-offended people (the "Smoke Nazis") equate vaping with smoking, and are trying to make it just as difficult for vapers as they made it for smokers, and THAT is simply not fair. I guess I can understand (grudgingly, but I do get it) why a business or park wouldn't want smoking anywhere on their premises, even outdoors -- it leaves a hell of a mess, butts and ashes everywhere, and a lot of folks are just not polite with how they dispose of those -- and even outdoors, if you are close enough, you can get a mighty faceful and lungful of the smoke and the smell -- but that is simply not the case with e-cigs. The vapor dissipates very rapidly, with little to no odor, contains perhaps 1/10,000th of anything really toxic, and there are no butts or ashes; so while I still acknowledge the right to not have it indoors, outdoors is a completely different matter, and it should not be treated like smoking, because it's just not the same. It offends *ME* that some people are just so plain stupid that just because it vaguely resembles smoking, they assume it's identical, and identically dangerous.
The issue with the government, that's wholly a matter of corruption -- they want to get re-elected, which takes a gazillion dollars these days, and hey, there's Big Tobacco and Big Pharma with many gazillions of dollars, going, "tell everyone that vaping is the same as smoking, or worse than smoking, and we'll give you this big chunk of cash so you can be re-elected and spread more lies that benefit us, and nevermind the health and well-being of your lawful constituents."
Does this sum it up pretty well? Because I really am getting confused.
Andria
CASAA is not a PR firm. They are a consumer advocacy group. Nobody says public perception is entirely pointless. What I am saying is that it is low level background noise when compared to the process issue steamrolled by the ANTZ.
Want a good example of how public opinion counts for zero VS "the system"?
75% of the voting public in the US favors term limits for Congress. No other issue has such widespread support, and has enjoyed it for decades. Wanna know what the current term limits are in the House of Representatives and the US Senate? None. There are no limits.
Sure, there are differences between vaping and term of service for Congress, but you get my point...maybe. Sometimes you are intentionally obtuse.
What is your issue with CASAA, anyway?
So if the "authorities" (be they federal, state, local, or whatever) decided that hence forth vaping is illegal everywhere except on your own property, you'd accept that and only vape there?
Well, the Nazis were fascists. Fascists are those who want to control other people via any means, but especially brute force coercion -- which is exactly how they've dealt with smokers -- and it always offends people like that to be called what they really are. Truth is the LAST thing they're interested in -- censorship and disinformation are among their primary means of power.You will offend some people here, who are highly sensitive about terminology with "Smoke Nazis"
At this point in my life, what people call me or think of me is of very little concern to me -- I just consider the source.If you get called a NUTZ, you know you are marked. I suggest you embrace it, too. Oh, sometimes they passively-aggressively will just refer to NUTZ, so keep an eye out for the term.
They collect signatures, don't they?
I guess weight of opinion must matter to them. Why doesn't it matter to many of their supporters, who regularly imply that it makes no difference whatsoever if we annoy people?
Polling consistently shows support for reinstating the death penalty here. Hasn't happened though.
But we can't change implacable ideology, undisclosed funding streams and shady misinformation campaigns. We can, slowly and painfully, change public perception. If I'm happy to write "yes, corruption, poor science, lobbying etc. make a significant difference", do you not think it would defuse the situation if more people on the "vapers' rights" side wrote "Yes, we need to be careful not to needlessly annoy people" too?. I'm trying to strike a sensible middle ground, and some others, from both sides, are too.
Intentionally obtuse? Really?
This site is absolutely full of people shouting slogans at each other. "You treat vaping like smoking!", "People like you are responsible when vaping gets banned!"
I try to avoid that. At no point earlier in the thread, for example, did I say "People like you are going to get vaping banned" to wv2win, even when I misunderstood his position to be one that I believe does harm to our cause. It isn't helpful. In fact I don't believe I've *ever* written it in those terms, about anybody, in the heat of any argument.
If I'm repetitious, it's normally because the people on the other side aren't listening. How many times have you ever heard me say we should treat vaping like smoking? In fact, have you ever heard *anybody* clearly state that we shouldn't vape where vaping is allowed but smoking isn't, which I'm sure you must agree would be the way to treat vaping like smoking?
I look forward to similar diligence pointing this straw man out when you see it posted...
I don't have an issue with CASAA policy, as far as I understand it. I disagree with Kristin's tactics, in that I think her conflation of smoking and vaping is unhelpful. But that's a European perspective, which may bear poorly on the situation over the pond.
I have an issue with some of their advocates though, some of whom seem to view this whole situation rather one dimensionally.