It’s just how I talk.
I'm very much tempted to go out on a limb here, and that limb might also be well out of line. Oh, what the heck >>>
Due to some experiences with a brother and one of my best friends, I'm guessing you're somewhere on the Asperger's spectrum. If that's incorrect and/or inappropriate, I apologize.
It wasn't meant to be an insult (not at all!), but merely an observation. Reading your posts is "familiar" to me, mainly because I deal with similar on a daily basis, both in written and verbal form.