I certainly agree with this. We all should consider ourselves ambassadors to the world. I may choose to vape differently than you, Zoid, and that is fine. I may press the issue in some gray areas, and you choose not to. We each have a method that suits our location, mannerisms, personality, etc. My way is no better than yours.
Are there risks to "pressing the issue"? You bet. Are there rewards? I think there are.
I have converted quite a few smokers to vaping. My choice to vape in gray areas has started many a conversation. I usually carry a couple of twists with evods on them to give away, and get someone started on their vaping journey. Vaping has changed my life, and made it better. I am healthier and happier. I owe it to smokers everywhere to expose them to this Tobacco Harm Reduction technique. I don't think I am too good to vape in smoking areas, because it is a great place to meet potential converts. But I also like to vape in non-smoking areas to show (and enjoy) the fruits of vaping. I have been asked to stop perhaps a half-dozen times in areas. When I am asked, I generally comply immediately. The notable exception was in an outdoor courtyard at a local mall....but that is a long story not for this post.
Now the way I see it, our best weapon as vapers is numbers. The more of us there are vaping, the more difficult it is to lay down unreasonable regulations, and the louder a voice of opposition we will have during the public comment period when the deeming regulations are announced.
The ANTZ exist, and they are coming to stop our habit. Pretending they are not real, or that people that talk about them are conspiracy theorists, or that they just want reasonable regulation won't make them go away. I believe in my heart that there is no appeasing this sort. We will either defeat them or be defeated. You can disagree with me on this, and I could well be wrong. But look at the smoking bans, how they progressed, and what smokers going along with the bans did for them. I don't "know" the right way to proceed, but I know quiet acquiescence is not a winning play. It got smokers pigeon-holed into where they are today. Is there a danger from coming off like militant, crazed fanatics? Yeah, but I believe coming across as docile is just as dangerous.
Zoid, I am not implying that you (or any other poster) has been docile, I am only sharing my philosophy of this matter.
Agree with you on most of your points Edd. Actually, I've only vaped for a couple of months now, after smoking heavily for most of my life. It was the so-called "responsible adults" that got me started on the path to misery in the first place. For the most part, I've been content to avoid starting arguments and avoiding conflict.
But...
Since I've started vaping, and come to enjoy the benefits of it (versus smoking anyway), I'm starting to become... I don't know... disillusioned. I was really PO'd about the ObamaCare thing. I couldn't afford health insurance before Mr. First Black President In History came along. I sure as hell can't afford it now. Plus, who would want the government's plan anyway? It's way too complex for us laymen to understand. And I really hate they way it was forced to pass before anyone was allowed to read it. That seems a bit... unscrupulous to me.
Anyway, didn't want to get off topic here. Just trying to illuminate a point. That is, that something has been bothering since I started vaping. I finally have found a way to get off the sickness-inducing cigarettes after 25 years. Vaping has worked for me. I do it in my apartment, and sometimes on the school bus, when the kids aren't around. It doesn't stink up my bus like cigs did, and even if the kids smell it, they generally seem to like it.
I don't vape too much in public places. I treat it just like I did smoking. A notable exception is Walmart. I HATE that place, and on the occasions that I am forced to go there, I just don't feel like walking all the way outside to have a vape break like I did with cigs. So, I'll do a couple of quick puffs here and there to get my fix until we can leave that infernal place. Heck, this actually led to me converting a smoker, if you want the God's honest on that one.
I don't think we're going to end up any better than the smokers did. There is just too much collective might against us right now. Too much money. But, I do agree with standing up and being counted. At the very least, the tobacco companies will truly have a reason to be scared, once they realize how many of us are actually ditching their products and taking our money elsewhere.