why bother

[rhoobarb]

hi all felling why bother lol
well my other half is in im not talking to you mood well that would be all well and fine if that was the case but it not the little digs moans are there
at time like this i still find it hard not to run and have an analog as that's what i always did went out side and smoke and smoke im vapeing my head off at the moment lol well there is still time when the urge comes to smoke an analog but its still will power that is needed

why bother i fell a life alone would be a lot easier sometimes so why bother with having a partner

 

[Elapid]

I didn't know what true happiness was until I was married, then it was too late.

 

[keyzygirl]

Its true!BUT think about all the funny or supportive or helpful things.I always say""Your an @$#hole but I still luv ya!!""and if I leave you get the kids AND the dogs!!(its only kidding,just to make him wonder)

 

[gashin]

What I don't understand is why women take so much crap from guys. I'm a guy and it always perplexes me! No, I don't treat my girl friends perfectly, but I don't treat them like dirt either.

 

[Skyler]

Just remember.....tomorrow is another day and this will pass. Stay on it and do it for yourself. At least you will be happy with it. Once your happy your partner will be happy.

 

[AJMoore]

I didn't know what true happiness was until I was married, then it was too late.

That is too cool. Can I keep that quote and use as I see fit?

Rhoobarb - I get you, my spouse has sabotaged all my efforts to quit smoking in the past. I didn't know another human being could make one so angry that we would do something to actually hurt ourselves in "self defense"??? Crazy, huh?

But now, I have e-cigs and I'm invincible!

 

[LostInDaJungle]

What I don't understand is why women take so much crap from guys. I'm a guy and it always perplexes me! No, I don't treat my girl friends perfectly, but I don't treat them like dirt either.

Funny, I never understood why men take so much crap from women. I guess it's a matter of perspective.

I was married for 12 years, and getting divorced was the best and worst thing that ever happened to me. I had the luxury of not wanting to jump into a relationship after my separation, and I refused to put up with anyone who was a pain in my donkey. Let's just say I had a ton of first dates and very few second dates.

My favorite was the Nurse who lectured me for 30 minutes on the dangers of smoking before I excused myself to go to the restroom and got in my car and went home. The date was obviously going horribly, I was shooting her my icyest stare, and she had the temerity to say "So, do you think our first kiss will be tonight?"

I snorted and said "Ummm, I don't think so."

She laughed and said "Well, I should make you wait, I don't want you to think I'm easy..."

I said, "It's not really your decision. I'm not asking to kiss you, I'm telling you it's not happening. 'Scuse me, gotta pee."

VROOOOOMMMMM...

Wait, what was the topic again? Oh yeah. About the Hubby, he's probably just going through men-stration. It's a monthly thing we guys get. You feel run down and unappreciated, you get some bloating and terrible gas, and you're emotional and sullen. Usually lasts about two days. If symptoms persist, you may have to shove a Tampax up his hiney to remove any blockages and clean out whatever crawled in there and died.

If that fails, shove the Tampax in his mouth and that should alleviate most of the symptoms that you're noticing. If nothing else, he'll have a reason to moan after that.8-o

 

[beast775]

no smoking .beast says so!

 

[kristin]

why bother i fell a life alone would be a lot easier sometimes so why bother with having a partner

Hopefully, because when you are the one in the cranky and not talking mood, your partner is still there for you when you snap out of it.

For me, the positives greatly outweigh the negatives - by far.

The hugs, the laughter, the cuddling, someone who gets me, watching tv or reading and having someone to talk about it with, the kids, knowing he has my back, someone to share the ups and the downs and especially the lovin' .

We respect each other greatly and I've never met someone who thinks so much like me - we share the same wavelength. We rarely argue, so that could be why I couldn't imagine life without him!

It took me 35 years to find him. Anything worth having never comes easy.

 

[rhoobarb]

thanx everyone some good words of wisdom i fell a lot better today and i did not have an analog so that's the big thing im proud of myself his mum was here today so that why he was all nasty last night and well that another story (nasty woman) ie said today well you have not give up smoking u just use that and that's smoke i could not be bothered to go in to the what it really is as it would fall on deaf ears im glad Ive got here to come and say how i fell and people care thanx again everyone

 

[Skyler]

Hang in there rhoob!