I think sometimes people are just too sensitive to the written word..... (not that there aren't exceptions) I don't think people post to be mean most of the time anyway (And Lily...you're right if I get a chance I'm not waiting).
That and the feeling that I have often got that some already had their minds made up on a particular topic and didn't like the responses they got when asking a question and felt like they were being flamed because others didn't agree with their views.
