Just my opinion on the matter, but are you helping pay for the house?? If so I would tell her so. It is your house too. I am not saying I would make a fight out of it, but it sounds like she is complaining about nothing. That is not a good sign in a marriage. I know because my wife is sometimes like that as well. She smoked for 3 years while I had already switched to vaping. At first she gave me grief about vaping in the house, but at the end of the day I told her I was going to do it whether she liked it or not. After a couple weeks she just finally gave up whining about it. Now she finally vapes as well. No more stinkies for us!! Now I just started getting into sub-ohm vaping and the nagging problems have returned, but just a little. She knows it is a hobby for me, and is getting to be more understanding of that. Keep at it, maybe your wife will come around.
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