I agree about wasps. I used to capture them and let them go and wish them well until one summer there were a lot of them, and I got stung a few times. Then I decided if they invade my territory, they die before I wind up stung. If they would leave me alone when I'm going about my business, I'd leave them alone, but they aren't like that. With wasps and yellow jackets, it's sting now and ask questions later. Honeybees are not as hostile, and those I capture and let go, especially since I heard that they are endangered. Luckily, as far as I know and have experienced, we don't have those killer bees around yet. I might change my mind if they became more aggressive. Meanwhile, letting the gentle bees live may fend that time off.
Now, flies and mosquitoes are enemies, too. I know how they can bother not only us but horses, so I kill them. And when I ride in the woods in summer, I wish I could find something that would at least deter deerflies. Nothing stops them, and when they bite, they draw blood. They are slow, so I can swat them rather easily, but when they are in force in the woods, it's better to just choose to ride in sunny places. For every one I swat, 10 more take its place. Another insect I'm not too fond of is botflies, which lay eggs on a horse's hair and then the horse licks that spot and ingests the hatching egg, which hatches when it has warm moisture, like a horse's saliva. Then they breed in the horse's stomach, come out in the manure, and start all over again. There are dewormers that get rid of their eggs in a horse, but even before that, I spend tedious hours scraping them off my horse's body during their season.
In general, insects are not my friends.
I'll let you know if we get overrun by ants this year. We have a peony bush outside that attracts the big black ants. Yes, I know the ants and peonies have a symbiotic relationship, and I don't mind them on the peonies, but when they get into my house, the ant traps come out. And sometimes the house get inundated with ladybugs. As cute as they are, if they crowd me out, I kill them. Spiders, I sort of tolerate, since they feast on other bugs more obnoxious, but sometimes they get out of hand, too, and then I kill them.
Call me intolerant and not particularly kind to bugs, but I have my limits.