I tried talking to her again.its no use...they have been joined at the hip...for 50 years...mum rules the roost always has....dad wont bite the hand that cares for him..that being mum....I couldn't get him on his own if I tried...her final statement is when me and your father feel we are ready and well enough...then and only then.so that's that...I told her when she needs me...she knows where I am..and ill be there asap..........im not beating myself up over it....im seeing my head doctor tomorrow....and download the whole lot on him...I feel sorry for him....but that's his job..thanks for your words im just abit numb atm.....
Hugs Deb. Glad you have someone to there. Sometimes I have considered it to find middle ground w/ mom & her hoarding.
Such a fine line between honoring a parent & your own (and maybe even others) needs. Keeping you near today.
Time for work.
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