well I guess it's not the not adding me that bothers me so much as actually not denying the request.......when it's still a pending request I get notified that 'so and so is now friends with person x and person y......and they ARE vapers.
Whatev, a lot of things bother me lately, I'm totally sure I will survive.
You know, I've received several friend requests from ECF'ers and have not realized that's who they are. I get a lot of random friend requests that I ignore because I don't know the people. Maybe the people you've tried to friend do not know your real name and don't recognize that you are a fellow vaper?
