The hug was a group hug, you are a big part of the group so you were surely included. I hear what your saying. But if you have that feeling, I don't see anyone getting hurt over going to Jules and saying...."look Jules, I just have a feeling member X. Member X I've watched and they just are suspicious looking to me, least some of the activity I've seen". Sky I'm just trying to come up with solutions to keep the peace here, and find an effective way of weeding out the ones that are here for one reason only.
Now I can;t say I don't feel the same way as you sometimes. Ya know.....how can I go buggin Jules over every little hunch that I have. And generally in the past I haven't, I've waited and watched, and eventually a comment will be made in a thread, or someome will PM me. Going forward Jules has requested that we do that. Much and I still feel that well, why bother her with my petty crap, I'm going to. I'm going to, and I hope when i do others are noticing the same thing. If not then I'm wrong, and misjudged, I don;t see the harm in that as it is only my intention to help PIF. boB
If the (((HUG)))) was meant for me, (((HUGS)))) back. If not meant for me, you can keep it anyway. =)
I just PM'ed Jules and tried to explain what I meant. There are tangibles and intangibles. The two that just happened with Sallana and the "unmentionable" were without a doubt tangible and I would have said something in a heartbeat had I been the first to see them. The J name and a couple of others are intangibles. Just my feelings and opinion. So what do I do with that? What if I am wrong and I say something that is just a feeling and someone gets hurt that doesn't deserve it? The best I can come up with is to start letting you know (but again, they would only be my feelings) and you all can discuss it and come to your own conclusions as to whether or not you want to continue "helping" a particular person. I keep saying "you all" because I do know you PM each other a lot.
I never meant to imply that Jules should be left out just that she has to deal with concrete facts, and I would hate to add to her load with only feelings and opinions.