Chit Chattin away!

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I am doing well!! Have been missing you guys!! Sharing a computer with a 15 year old girl and a 7 yr old no is no fun!! lol!!

Tell me about it... If my lil one was home.. i would not be on here now...lol... and i am off now... cant sit here any more... damn back!
 

BiancaMontgomery

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Lilacs don't feel bad...I'm still considering making one and smoking it...and probably will because it's just kinda making me nuts!

Missy, yeah, it's gonna be nasty, but it gets in my head and then I'm just obsessed with having one/fighting it...and I'm weak dammit! ;) I'll have it, then be done for months...still makes me feel so sad that I have this insane urge every few months. :(
 

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Jules, if you suspected that your next-door neighbor was stealing your paper every morning, would you go to the police without evidence?

And if you would, do you think most people would, or do you think they would just whine to their friends?

It's just an analogy. I'm not saying anyone is whining. What I'm saying is oftentimes, no matter how nice the authority is.. people are afraid of it. Been there, done that. I know how hard it is.. But you gotta know.. You aint doing anything wrong. You are very nice and always have been. Nobody is afraid of YOU. Just the position.

There is no need to be afraid of either. I started the PIF group to help people not hurt them or take advantage of them in any way. But, if you all aren't comfortable enough to come to me with a concern, then I have failed in my attempt to be a better person.

Jules...again, I think you take something personal that you shouldn;t. I think people think they have your best interest at heart bt NOT coming to you. I don;t think that anyone here is out to dodge you in any way. Welcome to chit chat BTW! Sit down and be one of "us" for a bit.......Jim's rather amusing! boB

No, I stay out of the chat thread for a reason. I know that if you think there is an authority figure in here you will quit being yourselves and that is not something I want to see happen. I want you all to be you as much as you can and still be within the rules of ECF. I only come in here when I have to. Another reason I need you all to be willing to come to me when something is wrong. I stay out of this thread, how am I supposed to know when something is wrong?

If the (((HUG)))) was meant for me, (((HUGS)))) back. If not meant for me, you can keep it anyway. =)

I just PM'ed Jules and tried to explain what I meant. There are tangibles and intangibles. The two that just happened with Sallana and the "unmentionable" were without a doubt tangible and I would have said something in a heartbeat had I been the first to see them. The J name and a couple of others are intangibles. Just my feelings and opinion. So what do I do with that? What if I am wrong and I say something that is just a feeling and someone gets hurt that doesn't deserve it? The best I can come up with is to start letting you know (but again, they would only be my feelings) and you all can discuss it and come to your own conclusions as to whether or not you want to continue "helping" a particular person. I keep saying "you all" because I do know you PM each other a lot.

I never meant to imply that Jules should be left out just that she has to deal with concrete facts, and I would hate to add to her load with only feelings and opinions.

The PMs that I receive go no farther than my inbox. I do not share them with anyone else unless I need to take it j0ker. If you come to me with a bad feeling about someone I am not going to be telling all of PIF about it. I will however, know to watch that person and see what they are up to. There is only one of me. If you don't help, I can't do what I should be doing.


Well look at it this way - a pm never hurt anybody. Right?

Exactly.

That is what I will do then. Like you I only want to see PIF protected and you were right when you said I only wanted to ease Jules load by not taking my "feelings" to her. It would be nice if we never had to again but from now on, if I get a funny feeling about someone, I will contact Jules. Thanks.

It doesn't ease my load. When the J thing happened, no one even mentioned it until it got to the point that I had to close a thread and delete over 100 posts. That is not easing my burden. Had someone sent me a PM I would have known right away what was happening and things would have been a lot easier on me.

It is your call. This is your social group. If you want to come to me with things you think are a problem that is great. If you don't, I will just deal with it as it comes up and I find it myself. I hope this is the end of this conversation now because I really don't know what else to say about it.
 

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Lox, I love House reruns...I want him for my doctor....lol

I also like 2 1/2 men reruns, and old Desperate Housewives reruns.....sad, eh?? Just don't like reality shows.

I never heard of house until the wife of one of the guys who works for me started calling me house. Said it was based on me?!
I had to see what was up with that and now I'm hooked. Lol
And yes he could very well be me. Well until recently. I don't like the nice guy house. Lol
 
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