zbass.. wow, I am overwhelmed at your list! Who told your son to grow? Mine are both in need of all new clothes this year and I've barely dented the school supply list, never mind their school clothes. But we got the shoes, so that's something!
So.. for fleas in your house.. Borax.. get some Borax detergent and put it down in the rugs for 24 hrs.. then vacuum and do it all over again. The borax will work by suffocating the fleas and their stupid little eggs.. but, that's just for the ones on the carpet. It does work great, we have indoor cats, and a friend of the kids came over who has a house infested with fleas.. they traveled on her to my house.. we were able to kill the fleas with the borax before they got bad, but it's not toxic and won't hurt the carpets.. worth a shot anyway!
If I had your list, I would break it up into
three things at a time, something that's in the same area of the house or whatever.. do the
three things, cross it off the list, move it along.. it's no wonder you're overwhelmed!