Copper Creek Chit Chat, Part #4

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*yawn* That nap was not long enough. I got all my chores done for the day early so I sat on the couch and before I knew it, it an hour and a half later.

If you had given a chore/s to your teenage child and they don't do a good job even after telling them how to do it correctly, would you make them re do it?
 
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*yawn* That nap was not long enough. I got all my chores done for the day early so I sat on the couch and before I knew it, it an hour and a half later.

If you had given a chore/s to your teenage child and they don't do a good job even after telling them how to do it correctly, would you make them re do it?
Yes I would.
 

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And good morning all.

I slept so good last night. Mrs E said she doesnt think I moved at all. After the gym Monday, re-stacking somewhere around 4k-5k pounds of batteries, then three hours on the ball fields, I couldnt imagine why I slept so well. Im just glad I didnt do arms at the gym Monday, because that would have made the batteries painful.... Oh wait... I did, and it was. Oh well! We'll call it a workout supplement!

Not all that much planned on after work today. I have to stop by the hair cutter folks and get my hair did. When my hair gets poofy, it gets curly, and I dont do curly. Then its hurry home to get Kat from volleyball practice, rush home to get Melanie and CJ, take them to the gym with me while Mrs E takes Kat to "Sunday" school. Yep. The fun never stops!

Mrs E finally got to Melanie's game after watching Kat's volleyball game. Between innings I asked how she did. Apparently, Kat never got the chance to play. The coach put in her starting six, then made no substitutions for the whole game. That means the starting six played the ENTIRE time. I've never seen a game where there were no substitutions.

I heard from Kat's travel ball coach yesterday. He's planning on holding a practice Friday. I dont know if he's going to be there or not, but he made it sound like he was. He said he's doing much better already, spent a little time sitting up in a chair yesterday. The fractured vertebrae were compression fractures, which is a good thing. It means that the chances of recovery are better. He said that when he first got there, he couldnt feel his feet, which is why they were saying he may not ever walk again. But after the swelling around his spine subsided, he regained full sensation. The punctured lung was repaired, and there really isnt anything they can do for broken ribs. The "severe" head trauma we were told about was exaggerated. He did sustain a concussion, but his helmet did it's job and saved his life. Kat is really looking forward to getting back on the field and putting a bat back in her hands.

*yawn* That nap was not long enough. I got all my chores done for the day early so I sat on the couch and before I knew it, it an hour and a half later.

If you had given a chore/s to your teenage child and they don't do a good job even after telling them how to do it correctly, would you make them re do it?
HA! I do that to my pre-teen and my non-teen kids! It's all about teaching them that if they're going to do something, no matter what it is, they need to do it right.

Well, apparently someone thinks that I complain way too much. Great, that's just great!j
*walks away complaining*
Must be a woman thing. ;)
 

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I'm thinking I am going to do some housework and run my errands and then slip in a little nap before Morgan gets home. I should really groom Ruger but I'm going to wait until there is a day I can take him to work with me. Usually I have to run errands after work and I won't leave him in the car. Plus if I have to take the car then I have to move his kennel to the back seat which is a pita. He can not ride in my car without being in the kennel. I don't want my leather seats messed up. I like to take him when hubby is home and use the truck.

Today is a nice day outside so I'm opening the windows and cutting a/c off. Hubby and I almost choked when we got our $400 power bill for last month. :shock:

Must be a woman thing. ;)

:glare: The question I asked was not the question he answered. I specifically asked if he thought I nagged the kids too much. He laughed and said no, but you do complain a lot. :glare: Any how, I told him I would try to make a conscience effort to not do so. I think he's talking about my venting to him about stuff. Guess I need to cut back on my venting.
 
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And good morning posse!!!!

James, I'm so relieved to see that he's doing better.

Waiting on the UPS driver so I can chew his lazy .... out. He "attempted delivery" two days in a row. I watched him drive past. We called UPS and they were sending him back yesterday. He never showed. So Mr. V is waiting on him today, he's not pleased. He has our plastic 15ml bottles and droppers, I'd rather they were here than driving around the area for three freaking days. ugh.

carry on.....
 

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Good morning! :)

:glare: The question I asked was not the question he answered. I specifically asked if he thought I nagged the kids too much. He laughed and said no, but you do complain a lot. :glare: Any how, I told him I would try to make a conscience effort to not do so. I think he's talking about my venting to him about stuff. Guess I need to cut back on my venting.
Tiff, it's because guys think differently. It took me a long time to learn that what we (women) think of as venting, men view as complaining, or as a problem we need them to solve.
 

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And good morning posse!!!!

James, I'm so relieved to see that he's doing better.

Waiting on the UPS driver so I can chew his lazy .... out. He "attempted delivery" two days in a row. I watched him drive past. We called UPS and they were sending him back yesterday. He never showed. So Mr. V is waiting on him today, he's not pleased. He has our plastic 15ml bottles and droppers, I'd rather they were here than driving around the area for three freaking days. ugh.

carry on.....
Not liking that... We have similar problems with UPS at work. We had a package last week that was marked "refused delivery" before they had even shown up. Monday, they tried to deliver an empty box that shouldve been 13 pounds. We never had these problems when we used FedEx.

Good morning! :)


Tiff, it's because guys think differently. It took me a long time to learn that what we (women) think of as venting, men view as complaining, or as a problem we need them to solve.
Hit the nail on the head! And venting isnt viewed as complaining. It IS complaining! :lol: The way I see it, if you dont like it, change it. If you cant change it by yourself, tell us (complain) about it, so we can help change it. If it cant be changed, why complain? Or more specifically, why complain about it continually? I can listen to my wife rave an rant about any given subject a few times. Once it passes that unspecified threshold, I just want her to shut up about it. :D
 

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Hit the nail on the head! And venting isnt viewed as complaining. It IS complaining! :lol: The way I see it, if you dont like it, change it. If you cant change it by yourself, tell us (complain) about it, so we can help change it. If it cant be changed, why complain? Or more specifically, why complain about it continually? I can listen to my wife rave an rant about any given subject a few times. Once it passes that unspecified threshold, I just want her to shut up about it. :D

Venting is not complaining. We see it as different. That's ok though. I figured if after 24 years together he is still around then it must not be all that bad. :laugh:

And I too forgot to say that I'm glad to hear the coach is doing better!
 

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Good morning! :)


Tiff, it's because guys think differently. It took me a long time to learn that what we (women) think of as venting, men view as complaining, or as a problem we need them to solve.

I didn't think of it that way. I definitely see "venting" different than "complaining". It hurt my feelings at first but I'm over it now. I'll use it in sarcastic conversation the next few days (already got one in this morning :lol:) I'm sure he has absolutely no clue that it bothered me then. And I of course did not say differently but instead gave him the "evil eye" the rest of the night. :laugh:
 

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This is my craft closet and it has all my organizing supplies in it. Obviously I have not got into the closet yet to organize. The first picture is the top half and the bottom and the bottom one is the lower half. Yes that is the ceiling you're seeing. There is also cappuccino and peach water bottles. Yes I have to hide food from kids. Its a long story.

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