ROFL! When my husband and I were first living together, not even married yet, I realized that if I just sat and watched the clock waiting for his arrival, and expected him to "entertain" me when got home, things were going to get ugly real fast. So I got a library card and used it, and didn't worry about what the clock said. After our son was born and I was home all day with a new baby, I got my first computer... fixed that soap opera problem right away.

Now after 27 yrs together, he does his thing, I do mine, and sometimes I go join him with his thing (watching TV). Otherwise I'd never see the man.
Andria