You're thinking we got hit with a ringer...It makes you stop and think doesn't it?
I understand you and the
cuddly and squeezable Most Terrifying and Ferocious Chief are talking about a persona over there, and I may be subconsciously driven by inauspicious emotions, but I have been wondering some things like that about a different person there, as well as a person here.
If I am wrong about that, I will apologize in advance and again early and often, but yes, I have been stopping and thinking, and making it all about me by excusing that my radar for that kind of thing was not only off but stuffed in the closet under a box of old evening bags.
I have been watching Soprano DVDs...The cigar...
Mr lolady and I have been watching that, too, and just as I realize I've been subconsciously not inhaling my electric hookah-doodle cloud and chuckling to myself at how good I'm getting at doing it just like Tony instead of Greta Garbo, I'm obliged to wonder if I'm also getting too imaginative about ringers and things...
...I just don't care for how things have, in my opinion, taken a turn for the worse. I've done my fair share and I apologize....We are better than the name calling and snide remarks. We've just forgotten that.
...I agree with Nate, it's gotten out of hand.
I am sorry. It was I who asked for the link to the other one, and knee-jerk reacted
here to the remark about the auntie.
This took place on the evening of the very day when I and at least a couple of other people had posted some very personal and sensitive things about ourselves driven by the sincere desire to reach out and offer support and help what appeared to be a very troubled individual.
That's not an excuse, nor is the "trigger" potency of the whole auntie incident, or the "TDL web" comment about the auntie, but it is an object lesson in the power of words, and the effect the feelings they evoke, can have on us.
I can't speak for anybody else, but the idea that I might have taken so much time and effort to help somebody who didn't really need help, who was, in reality a simple bottom-rung operative, - well, let's just say that my response to that should have been "oh well, maybe what I typed will help some lurker who does need help," but I'm embarrassed to say that was not my initial reaction.
It's also worth pointing out that many of the Good Deed Posse have been quietly and stoicly enduring playground-grade behavior on the part of the Quitistas for some time, and even the noblest doer of Good Deeds among us is human. Even a worm, the old saying goes, will turn.
(For those unfamiliar with the saying, it is NOT intended to compare the eventual turner to a worm in the sense of denigration, rather in the sense of a being that is by nature, very non-aggressive and extremely slow to react to aggression, but eventually, if poked enough, even the placid worm will turn around and go the other way).
Edit one more time to note that most of them "over there" are also better than that, and all of them have the potential to be better than that, and please excuse the even greater than usual incoherence, normally I would wait a few hours for a better window and hose this off, but the situation is unusual, so you will just have to slog through it as best you can.