So far yours is the only bending adapter that has been reported to have a problem--it would be good for some others to chime in as to how theirs are faring. I got mine to protect the threads and for the floating pin-- don't really care about the bending function. I was using the 510-ego adapter with a beauty ring and it was ok but not near as good as the bendable adapter.
Mine is working fine.
I'm not sure how the center pin on Nighthawk's is pushing the adapter up. He might need to back his topper off. Some connectors are longer than others, but it sounds like the springs behind the catch are damaged now. I don't see how that could be caused by the center pin. So I decided not to worry about it.
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