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It is very ungood of me to enjoy the conniption fits this throws feminists into. I need to work on that.
Yes, I know "ungood " not a real word. But it seems to convey my meaning better than just plain old "bad"
Nancy Leigh DeMoss is wonderful. If you have iTunes you can subscribe to her podcasts.
Martha Peace is my favorite though. "An Excellent Wife" is the second most important book I have ever read. You should read the reviews on Amazon - they are hilarious. If it upsets feminists that badly, it must be good, right?
I'm being ungood again. "Bad Angel, Bad!"
I'll be quiet now.
~A
It is very ungood of me to enjoy the conniption fits this throws feminists into. I need to work on that.
Yes, I know "ungood " not a real word. But it seems to convey my meaning better than just plain old "bad"
Nancy Leigh DeMoss is wonderful. If you have iTunes you can subscribe to her podcasts.
Martha Peace is my favorite though. "An Excellent Wife" is the second most important book I have ever read. You should read the reviews on Amazon - they are hilarious. If it upsets feminists that badly, it must be good, right?
I'm being ungood again. "Bad Angel, Bad!"
I'll be quiet now.
~A
If you can't do it fast, do it often
It is very ungood of me to enjoy the conniption fits this throws feminists into. I need to work on that.
Yes, I know "ungood " not a real word. But it seems to convey my meaning better than just plain old "bad"
Nancy Leigh DeMoss is wonderful. If you have iTunes you can subscribe to her podcasts.
Martha Peace is my favorite though. "An Excellent Wife" is the second most important book I have ever read. You should read the reviews on Amazon - they are hilarious. If it upsets feminists that badly, it must be good, right?
I'm being ungood again. "Bad Angel, Bad!"
I'll be quiet now.
~A
.... I love it when you're ungood 
Good Angel Good! 
I posted a comment on yahoo about Dear Abby today. I said the letter writer needs to quit whining that his wife is not employed, be a man, accept the responsibilities of a husband and support his family. I got 32 "thumbs down" and sixteen comments voicing disagreement with what I said. The best one was "I see you finally got electricity and internet on the compound. Tell the sister-wives I said hi" ROFL at that one.
It looks like believing that men and women are different and have different roles in life makes me a crazy person. I'll go ask my husband if my attitude needs adjusted.
~A
It looks like believing that men and women are different and have different roles in life makes me a crazy person. I'll go ask my husband if my attitude needs adjusted.
~A
Oh ~A! I could have warned you in advance about 'that' move!
Being a traditional Christian Wife does indeed make us appear crazy.. but if crazy means blissfully happy in this lifetime with a Man who loves you as Christ loved the Church, (more than themselves)... then this is a crazy many Women, secretly, long for ... if they really knew for sure it existed. Things have changed so much in my lifetime however, maybe I'm out of touch.. maybe this really isn't the case at all. I sure hope not. This Tue Woman 'Manifesto' is a wonderful 'tool' to perhaps bring restoration?... Worth shooting for I think.
I'm gonna go ask my Husband if my attitude could use some adjusting also... don't be surprised if I don't post his response...
That was an awesome article, well worth the read. The bible is the perfect instruction on how a family should operate for the benefit of all members of the family. The husband, wife and children.
Once the womens lib movement came around and took over, society started in a downward spiral. It's been downhill ever since. Just another example of humans taking God's instructions and throwing them out the door, saying "No, I want to do it my way!"
And look at the result.........women flooded the workplace and nobody home to raise the children. They got herded into puppy mill day care centers. Men then had to compete with women for jobs and nobody home to supervise the school age kids when they got home. TV and video games because the new "mom" to keep them busy when they got home from school. Fast food became the new dinner because women didn't have time to cook, no time to clean, help with homework, nurture and guide our children. Every thing was rush rush rush because we just got home from work and were now tired.
Women wanted to go to work, and we did, and now look at the mess we created! Our men don't feel valued, respected and appreciated anymore because we work the same as them now, we have emasculated them to a certain degree by taking away their sole responsibility to provide for their families, which results in marriage problems. More then half marriages end in divorce now, and then the kids are left holding the bag being shuffled from one place to another.
God created the family arrangement, and it was good! It should be that way because that's the only way it works properly! But once again.........people said no to God and created their own disaster.
All these single girls and women having babies, this is out of control and it's bad news!!!!! What is wrong with these women? They have no shame because this is the "new normal"! Just like a working wife and mother has become the "new normal", so is the unwed mother now the new normal too!
To me, it's an abomination...........all of it. In my opinion, and I believe this is also God's, that if you marry, your place now is in the home. Unfortunately, the way society has progressed most couples need 2 incomes to make it. But, we did this to ourselves!
Honor your husband and be a helper to him, but let him lead. Show him respect and appreciation and he will love you even more. I can see this in my own marriage. When I get pushy and bossy, he backs off, feels emasculated, and distances himself from me emotionally. But, when I let him be the "hero", and show him that I need him and appreciate him, I can see that he thrives and it brings us closer together.
We should be the women that God created us to be, and allow our men to be the men that God created them to be.
<squeezing onto the soapbox with Lisa>
Add to that the damage that feminism has done to men. Because women now work and provide for themselves, men believe they don't have to provide for their families. When they were relieved of their responsibility they were relieved of their masculinity. Many modern men think of housewives as freeloaders, and not as the treasure they are. Homemaking, because it does not produce a paycheck, is no longer a valued occupation.
When a man does step up to the plate and wants to keep his wife at home, it is almost impossible to find a job that will allow it. Two income families are the norm now, and prices have risen to reflect that. It is simple economics. When the market (of potential employees) is flooded, the price (salaries offered) goes down.
When a woman is in a position of authority (or even autonomy) at work, she will find it emotionally and psychologically difficult to transition to submission at home. If she is "fully capable of taking care of herself" her husband is no longer needed for the survival of the family and he becomes disposable as soon as any minor problem comes up in the marriage.
Because women are raising children alone or having abortions. Sex is not looked at as the love affirming and life creating blessing that it was designed to be. It is just a fun Friday night activity. If a man had to take on the responsibility of providing for a woman and any child she conceives, for the rest of her life, he would not be so quick to want to bed any women he comes across. Feminism has turned women into disposable sex toys. Feminism teaches that women can treat men the same way. So there are more fatherless children and more abortions.
Then there are the simple little things. I know men who are afraid to open doors for women because feminist say that is offensive. They insist they are capable of opening doors themselves. Women can open doors, but it is a measure of respect for a man to do it for her. Are feminists saying they don't want respect?
I'll stop now. But I could go on for days
Love,
~A
Add to that the damage that feminism has done to men. Because women now work and provide for themselves, men believe they don't have to provide for their families. When they were relieved of their responsibility they were relieved of their masculinity. Many modern men think of housewives as freeloaders, and not as the treasure they are. Homemaking, because it does not produce a paycheck, is no longer a valued occupation.
When a man does step up to the plate and wants to keep his wife at home, it is almost impossible to find a job that will allow it. Two income families are the norm now, and prices have risen to reflect that. It is simple economics. When the market (of potential employees) is flooded, the price (salaries offered) goes down.
When a woman is in a position of authority (or even autonomy) at work, she will find it emotionally and psychologically difficult to transition to submission at home. If she is "fully capable of taking care of herself" her husband is no longer needed for the survival of the family and he becomes disposable as soon as any minor problem comes up in the marriage.
Because women are raising children alone or having abortions. Sex is not looked at as the love affirming and life creating blessing that it was designed to be. It is just a fun Friday night activity. If a man had to take on the responsibility of providing for a woman and any child she conceives, for the rest of her life, he would not be so quick to want to bed any women he comes across. Feminism has turned women into disposable sex toys. Feminism teaches that women can treat men the same way. So there are more fatherless children and more abortions.
Then there are the simple little things. I know men who are afraid to open doors for women because feminist say that is offensive. They insist they are capable of opening doors themselves. Women can open doors, but it is a measure of respect for a man to do it for her. Are feminists saying they don't want respect?
I'll stop now. But I could go on for days
Love,
~A
<squeezing onto the soapbox with Lisa>
Add to that the damage that feminism has done to men. Because women now work and provide for themselves, men believe they don't have to provide for their families. When they were relieved of their responsibility they were relieved of their masculinity. Many modern men think of housewives as freeloaders, and not as the treasure they are. Homemaking, because it does not produce a paycheck, is no longer a valued occupation.
When a man does step up to the plate and wants to keep his wife at home, it is almost impossible to find a job that will allow it. Two income families are the norm now, and prices have risen to reflect that. It is simple economics. When the market (of potential employees) is flooded, the price (salaries offered) goes down.
When a woman is in a position of authority (or even autonomy) at work, she will find it emotionally and psychologically difficult to transition to submission at home. If she is "fully capable of taking care of herself" her husband is no longer needed for the survival of the family and he becomes disposable as soon as any minor problem comes up in the marriage.
Because women are raising children alone or having abortions. Sex is not looked at as the love affirming and life creating blessing that it was designed to be. It is just a fun Friday night activity. If a man had to take on the responsibility of providing for a woman and any child she conceives, for the rest of her life, he would not be so quick to want to bed any women he comes across. Feminism has turned women into disposable sex toys. Feminism teaches that women can treat men the same way. So there are more fatherless children and more abortions.
Then there are the simple little things. I know men who are afraid to open doors for women because feminist say that is offensive. They insist they are capable of opening doors themselves. Women can open doors, but it is a measure of respect for a man to do it for her. Are feminists saying they don't want respect?
I'll stop now. But I could go on for days
Love,
~A
AMEN to that! 100% truth written in black and white right there!!!!!!!!!
Either we both need to loose a little weight, or we need a bigger soapbox. It's crowded up here. But the company is good.
Either we both need to loose a little weight, or we need a bigger soapbox. It's crowded up here. But the company is good.
Plenty of room for everyone!!!!!!!!! I just put my control top pantyhose on, so we're good!!!!
<squeezing onto the soapbox with Lisa>
Add to that the damage that feminism has done to men. Because women now work and provide for themselves, men believe they don't have to provide for their families. When they were relieved of their responsibility they were relieved of their masculinity. Many modern men think of housewives as freeloaders, and not as the treasure they are. Homemaking, because it does not produce a paycheck, is no longer a valued occupation.
When a man does step up to the plate and wants to keep his wife at home, it is almost impossible to find a job that will allow it. Two income families are the norm now, and prices have risen to reflect that. It is simple economics. When the market (of potential employees) is flooded, the price (salaries offered) goes down.
When a woman is in a position of authority (or even autonomy) at work, she will find it emotionally and psychologically difficult to transition to submission at home. If she is "fully capable of taking care of herself" her husband is no longer needed for the survival of the family and he becomes disposable as soon as any minor problem comes up in the marriage.
Because women are raising children alone or having abortions. Sex is not looked at as the love affirming and life creating blessing that it was designed to be. It is just a fun Friday night activity. If a man had to take on the responsibility of providing for a woman and any child she conceives, for the rest of her life, he would not be so quick to want to bed any women he comes across. Feminism has turned women into disposable sex toys. Feminism teaches that women can treat men the same way. So there are more fatherless children and more abortions.
Then there are the simple little things. I know men who are afraid to open doors for women because feminist say that is offensive. They insist they are capable of opening doors themselves. Women can open doors, but it is a measure of respect for a man to do it for her. Are feminists saying they don't want respect?
I'll stop now. But I could go on for days
Love,
~A
Oh this was perfect ~A!
I would like to add that my Husband STILL opens the car door for me (and I wait & allow him to do it)... sometimes to his belittlement by other Men... which he shrugs off as he winks at me
There are no words to describe what it's like to be honored, valued and cherished by your Husband. My Husband is the major breadwinner in this Family... my income is measly in comparison but I work a 'cottage industry' and I honor my Husband before my income.. (or my business). Without Christ our Home is nothing, without each other 'we' are nothing.
Either we both need to loose a little weight, or we need a bigger soapbox. It's crowded up here. But the company is good.
I love it when you two Gals climb on those soap boxes too!
Oh this was perfect ~A!
I would like to add that my Husband STILL opens the car door for me (and I wait & allow him to do it)... sometimes to his belittlement by other Men... which he shrugs off as he winks at me
There are no words to describe what it's like to be honored, valued and cherished by your Husband. My Husband is the major breadwinner in this Family... my income is measly in comparison but I work a 'cottage industry' and I honor my Husband before my income.. (or my business). Without Christ our Home is nothing, without each other 'we' are nothing.
Yea! And I would like to add that my husband STILL takes out the trash (and I wait & allow him do it!)
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, how does everyone feel about women's suffrage, the right for women to be educated, the right for women to be free from slavery (sexual and labor), the right for women to have access to doctors and hospitals, the right for those women who do have to earn income (single, widowed, etc) to be paid the same money for doing the same work as men, women's right to own property, and women's rights to be protected from domestic violence, sexual harrassment, and sexual assault?
Women's lib accomplished none of that. All it did was destroy God's perfect arrangement within the family and turn it into a false "oppression" when nothing could have been further from the truth. Railing against God's ordained & perfect original family arrangement, and calling it "good" is going against God Himself as that's what satan does.
Ephesians 5:22, 28-31. "Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church; and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wife as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it . . . So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church . . . For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shal.1 be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh".
Husbands, love your wife as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it . . . So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church . . . For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shal.1 be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh".
Husbands are also held accountable to God for how they treat their wives. Here is a good article on that
The Bible & The Husband's responsibility to his Wife!
The Bible & The Husband's responsibility to his Wife!
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