GLASSMANOAK'S Contest Thread #117...for WINNERS and with MULTIPLE WINNERS !!

[liblue1]

11/9 #3

And now a question for the tree family. I have wanted to write her a letter and tell her I am sorry; and that I would have taken care of her for life. Should I do this?

I would say NO............leave everything alone.............write it if you must and burn it (destroy it).....it is known I am sure.....that's just my opinion..........

 

[angelphyre]

11/9
2. @tiggerrts - Awesome! I'm so glad you can finally put this all behind you! I know it's kind of bittersweet right now, but you'll be doing your happy dance before you know it. You deserve to be happy!

ETA: Tiggs, I agree with Blue...leave it alone...or if you must, write it and then burn it as a way of letting go.

 

[liblue1]

11/9 #4
You should write all of the things you want(ed) to say and seal it in an envelope....address it and burn it....the intention is set and the Universe knows that you said/mean it all............don't go opening up doors that shouldn't be opened for now....you will be the one who will get hurt..........

 

[Uncle]

And now a question for the tree family. I have wanted to write her a letter and tell her I am sorry; and that I would have taken care of her for life. Should I do this?

OKAY - Now this is just "My" personal opinion and I want to be sensitive to "Your" needs . . .



SO - Let me make this perfectly clear and put this is a way that "You" can understand . . .

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AND - Just in case that was not clear enough . . .

 

[jpf880]

#3
11/9

11/9 #3

I would say NO............leave everything alone.............write it if you must and burn it (destroy it).....it is known I am sure.....that's just my opinion..........

11/9
2. @tiggerrts - Awesome! I'm so glad you can finally put this all behind you! I know it's kind of bittersweet right now, but you'll be doing your happy dance before you know it. You deserve to be happy!

ETA: Tiggs, I agree with Blue...leave it alone...or if you must, write it and then burn it as a way of letting go.

11/9 #4
You should write all of the things you want(ed) to say and seal it in an envelope....address it and burn it....the intention is set and the Universe knows that you said/mean it all............don't go opening up doors that shouldn't be opened for now....you will be the one who will get hurt..........

I agree ^^^^^^

 

[Fuzzy Thunderbear]

11/9 #3

I have wanted to write her a letter and tell her I am sorry; and that I would have taken care of her for life. Should I do this?

Not yet, if ever. You are not emotionally free from this whole thing yet and might say things that should not be said at this point in time. Let the river flow for a while. See where your new sight and freed emotions take you. If you write it today, you might well regret it tomorrow. Go out and have a celebration dinner and let yesterday be gone from your life. She also has a new life and new directions and - just maybe - won't appreciate being told this stuff right now either. Let time do some healing for both of you.

Well, time for me to get off my buns and go unload, split and stack all that wood. I'll check back later tonight. Everyone have a great day.

I was installing a drain pipe to keep rain water and snow melt out of the hay room. Cowboy decided I needed his help - either that or he figured if I was gonna lay around on the ground, he should do so too.

 

[Roadtrip635]

And now a question for the tree family. I have wanted to write her a letter and tell her I am sorry; and that I would have taken care of her for life. Should I do this?

11/9 #3

I'm with Blue on this one. Go ahead and write, it will probably be good to get it all out, but remember the real reason you're writing it. If you think about it, it's for you to get some sense of closure, finality, it really isn't for her. You don't want to leave that door open, close it behind you and look to the future.

Take the letter and burn it or my favorite, is to make a little paper boat and take it down to the river and let it float away. If you send her the letter you will regret it. What's done is done and things happen for a reason even if those reasons aren't apparent now. Good luck and stay strong.

 

[rangerrobin]

11/9 #5

11/9 #3

I would say NO............leave everything alone.............write it if you must and burn it (destroy it).....it is known I am sure.....that's just my opinion..........

11/9
2. @tiggerrts - Awesome! I'm so glad you can finally put this all behind you! I know it's kind of bittersweet right now, but you'll be doing your happy dance before you know it. You deserve to be happy!

ETA: Tiggs, I agree with Blue...leave it alone...or if you must, write it and then burn it as a way of letting go.

OKAY - Now this is just "My" personal opinion and I want to be sensitive to "Your" needs . . .



SO - Let me make this perfectly clear and put this is a way that "You" can understand . . .

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AND - Just in case that was not clear enough . . .

@tiggerrts - DITTO X3!!!

 

[tiggerrts]

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[liblue1]

11/9 #5
That's perfect....you should probable delete the post too.....just to make sure.....I love magick.....it's always good when a well planned act comes together...........It never ceases to amaze me what power we do have over some aspects of our own lives/destiny.............just a little push/pointing in what direction we would like to take.....the path is ours for the choosing......
With that I will be off to get some things done today.....have a great day everyone...I will check back in later on....

 

[tiggerrts]

11/9 - 4: Time to wake up a bit and be myself....

 

[tiggerrts]

 

[KatzWh1skers]

@tiggerrts ...I'm so glad that part is over. I know it's been said...we are here.

 

[CountBoredom]

11/9 #3
Tiggs, you're doing the right thing in not sending it. All that would have done is drag everything out further emotionally. And edit that post, too, like Blue said.

 

[tiggerrts]

11/9 #3
Tiggs, you're doing the right thing in not sending it. All that would have done is drag everything out further emotionally. And edit that post, too, like Blue said.

Done and I hate this..........

We were both dressed today in court, like we were when we first met.

 

[tiggerrts]

 

[rangerrobin]

NAE

@tiggerrts - You must not engage with her. I know it is hard to walk away and not turn back, but that is what is required now.
I also understand the mix of emotions you are feeling. Express your feelings only in safe spaces and with safe people.

 

[mac63]

11/9 - 2: Well it is official, one year and seven months and it is finally over and I am free. The agreements we had stood, and my property should be returned within 14 days enforced by the courts. Somehow the air seems fresher today.

Great news Tigg!
Bad stuff is now behind and lots of good ahead for you.

I agree with the others on the letter - what's done is done and gone - no need to bring any back - go out into the world and enjoy life.

 

[tiggerrts]

 

[tiggerrts]