7/18 #5
Because we're part of a vaping group like ECF, it's easy to forget that some vapers are on the fringes of the "community" (or ignorant of it altogether). They have one or two setups and they stay there, blissfully unaware of the joys (and self-recrimination--just ask
@philbh 
) of shiny-itis. A curse or a blessing...? However, they are often surprised by the PIF mentality.
Stay safe,
@Mandikay! It's hard being on the fringe of these tragedies--you're not directly involved (thankfully!), but because you know one of the victims, much of the talk and grandstanding hurts just a little bit more. Just remember that much of the rhetoric and opinions posed by people in the media and online are mostly people trying to shape the narrative to fit their point of view--they forget that the dead were actually human beings that we knew and loved.