My sympathies Rhp. That was a devastating loss. You've already done the most important thing for your longevity however in quitting or cutting way back (sorry, I don't know which). Medical care has improved so much in the last 20 years however that there is a real basis for the idea of 50 being the new 30. So I would say, if you and your lady are ready, .....get on with it! And have fun trying. 
Yeah my woman is taking iron pills recommended by obgyn for that. Tomorrow, rather, today will mark the anniversary of my father passing away (lung cancer). I miss the ol' man. I think I needed him more in my 30s than any other time and naturally I wanna be there for my son when he's in his 30s. I guess the older we get the more we appreciate our parents. But let's be real, I smoked for over 20 years. Odds aren't great. My dad gets a pass 'cuz when he started smoking people didnt know how bad it was
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? Good Sunday to all of you!