Heather's Heavenly Vapes - THE BIG THREAD

[Hulamoon]

If it's just a social drink or seeing a movie, sure. Don't forget that you may be on the rebound, so - in your own wise words - take it slow, and figure out what you really want. Same goes for your erstwhile lady too.

So am I a bad person if I accept a date proposal for Friday night? She is a very striking young lady with a tall athletic frame (NOT one I have any history with!) I know I am an emotionally-stunted douche bag. What is the opinion of the group on this, is it okay? It will have been over ten days when I go out with new girl...

 

[Hulamoon]

Congratulations PicC and lady PicC! Wonderful news! I'm so happy that it went so well for both of you!

Sorry if this blows up too big.

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[Hulamoon]

And a very fitting occasion to go with it MrP. So give us a picture of the newly engaged couple to celebrate it!

Is this 51?? Mobile lies to me
It is!! Happy dance.

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[Hulamoon]

Hmph. That's because I could hardly get a word in edgeways what with you and GT....

And I think it took forever to get Hula's first. Considering she was the first reply to this thread....

 

[Hulamoon]

Morning all! HI Becky! How's that migraine? Did it leave finally? Sure hope so, your morning wit adds a sparkle to all our days.

 

[EddardinWinter]

I want to do a table top out of beer bottle caps. But DH only drinks bud light cans and my beer consumption would take years of saving them.

Lion, would you be ok with your soon to be ex going on a date?

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She's already my ex. Yes, it would not bother me a bit. Picc is my new life coach and he says its okay, so I am down.

 

[Hulamoon]

So how you feeling Mr Lion? Relieved? Bit down in the dumps? Or no change really?

She's already my ex. Yes, it would not bother me a bit. Picc is my new life coach and he says its okay, so I am down.

 

[MrPicC]

If it's just a social drink or seeing a movie, sure. Don't forget that you may be on the rebound, so - in your own wise words - take it slow, and figure out what you really want. Same goes for your erstwhile lady too.

This right here is your answer.
THough you mention it wouldn't bother you if your ex did the same soooooooo.
If it truly wouldn't bother you then yes, I say go for it.

 

[EddardinWinter]

So how you feeling Mr Lion? Relieved? Bit down in the dumps? Or no change really?

Pretty good. It is nice to be finished with the business of her moving out. Its also weird being in my house without her, naturally. Of course I miss her, so I am a bit down. But I got a busy day today, and I am looking forward to it.

 

[PapawBrett]

So am I a bad person if I accept a date proposal for Friday night? She is a very striking young lady with a tall athletic frame (NOT one I have any history with!) I know I am an emotionally-stunted douche bag. What is the opinion of the group on this, is it okay? It will have been over ten days when I go out with new girl...

It has literally been decades since I 'played the game', but this is what I would have done;
If she's a hottie and you really would like the chance to bag this one, make a dinner/ dancing date at 6 pm.
Then make a date with another you know you can have at eight.
If the six o'clock shows, wine and dine her, dance the night away and bed her. The, the next morning go to the eight o'clock with a sincere apology (figure out the angles, she will ask questions) and make a dinner date on Tuesday or so and bed her too.
If the six o'clock does NOT show, then you still have the comfort and security of the eight o'clock.
And if you get caught, tell them the truth. They never expect that.

EDIT: I should add stay away from married women. Jealous Husbands can be a real problem.

 

[Bronze]

Good morning Army. Have a great Sunday!

 

[Pappy]

But I have to admit...after seeing the calories burned on the dreadmill I am beginning to wonder how many calories are in a can of beer.

Once I started running, I started looking at food in "mileage" equivalents. Such as "Dang, I have to run 4 miles to burn off the calories in this piece of pie!" And that helped me say no to a lot of junk food. But I do have to reward myself sometimes.

 

[Pappy]

So much love tonight. Thanks!
That location was our hangout for 4 months before we started dating. She was in another relationship and I completely respected that, and never let her know my feelings till it was over.
Only wanted her friendship back honestly.


Robin NO. Not a clue! Obviously she knew it was coming because of the move, but no she thought I was giving the Dog water or tying shoe.
I blurted out some nonsense because I was quite nervous and shaking but got the important words out.

Congrats, MrPicC!!

 

[MostlySunny]

Lion... I was going to ask if she's moved out already and this date is not a mutual acquaintance. I see she has moved out, so it would just matter to me if she knew the new lady too. Obviously you both need to move on at some point. Personally I'd wait a month or so before any public outings (phone calls or maybe a quick coffee date at most) but I'm a girl and I know we think differently.

Have fun... You move quickly!

 

[*RJ*]

Once I started running, I started looking at food in "mileage" equivalents. Such as "Dang, I have to run 4 miles to burn off the calories in this piece of pie!" And that helped me say no to a lot of junk food. But I do have to reward myself sometimes.

Moderation is key. Life is no fun without the good stuff! I was always a runner and ran 5 miles a day in high school and I ran the mile in the track club and I got back into it about 7 years ago and ran as much as I could. It's hard to fit all this in with my schedule which is why I love having the treadmill in easy reach instead of having to go to the school to run. It's more about being healthy for me than to lose weight though. But at the same time my metabolism is changing as I age and it's harder. But if I want a piece of cake, I'm eating it!

Good morning...now I'm off to do chores.

 

[Bronze]

Once I started running, I started looking at food in "mileage" equivalents. Such as "Dang, I have to run 4 miles to burn off the calories in this piece of pie!" And that helped me say no to a lot of junk food. But I do have to reward myself sometimes.

I do the same thing Pap. I also imagine seeing that pie-shaped triangle protruding from my stomach. Besides, who needs pie when you can vape Parrothead instead.

 

[MostlySunny]

I agree RJ. Moderation is key. It's easy to push the limits with exercise and end up injured and letting it rule your attitude for the day. Not to mention dinners out. I like food, I'm 95% happy with my weight, but I do want to age gracefully, prevent injuries and live a long time.

Chores? I guess I should do those today too.

 

[MwSlim]

Good morning Army! I am very hungover

I always seem to have too much fun when I get with my brothers lol


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[*RJ*]

As I was laying out in the sun and then doing some pressure washing...I did some thinking about this whole dating thing. I reminded myself that even if I did want to date, I couldn't because I have my young son full time (his Dad doesn't take his normal parenting time). Which is exactly why I'm waiting to date until my son is of driving age and capable of somewhat taking care of himself. And I also don't do the drop the kids off at grandparent's house thing. So my best advice of the day?...don't have kids with moronic selfish deadbeats! OK I feel better....carry on....



45 minutes until Mom's Sunday dinner...one of my favorite times of the week! I may have to do double time on the dreadmill!!! LOL!

 

[MwSlim]

Today's hangover helpers

Evic ECA filled with Heavenly Army

kayfun filled with Maha Ras

EPM loaded up with Bobas

I think I'm gonna sit in my recliner all day and watch some movies


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