Hope nobody took offense to my subculture remark, heh, but yeah, you guys definitely have a subculture kind of thing going on. Not only online with Youtube channels, websites, forums but in RL too! This was a surprise to one who was just dipping his toe in the water looking for an occasional tool of last resort before falling back to cigarettes. And it's a good thing for me! Vaping is more complicated than I thought.
As for addiction, I do not want a habit that I HAVE to do and it's as simple as that (My other habit is coffee and I'd like to be able to enjoy coffee but if I can't go a week without then I see that as a problem. Cigarettes first though as they are killing me). I'm not so much afraid of forming a new habit of vaping as I am unsure how it will fit in with my desire to kick cigarettes completely and utterly. There is definitely a physical and psychological addiction going on. The patch is very effective at dealing with the physical addiction and yet I still backslide and go back to cigarettes (work days are fine but weekends and holidays are the killer for me). I look at vaping first and foremost as a way to transfer that psychological addiction to something harmless. I think I agree with the point a couple of you have made that the more pleasant vaping can be, the greater the chance that transition will hold and the stakes are high enough that any other "worry" is way back in second place. So I rescind my thought that it might be good for vaping to be a little unpleasant. I'm not confident of my success if that were the case.
Though it's not my intention now, I'm not uncomfortable with the thought that in a year's time I might be occasionally vaping because I've discovered it's fun. As long as I can put it away for a week or two and not, like, get the shakes or anything then why not?
BTW. I just discovered and read the sticky talking about finding the right flavors. Seems not liking the tobacco flavors and thinking vaping isn't at all like cigarettes isn't uncommon for newbies. That makes me feel better. I'm gonna check out some of the other threads about flavor and juice recommendations!