To be truly honest here, I too have cringed a few times with the harsh responses to people who are trying to find answers. I'm not sure exactly what the answer is here...I am torn. Seriously it saddens me.....The message is, "It's my way or the highway." There has got to be a better way to answer those that may come across as judgmental to us Christians. To share the light of truth without condemning. If they are looking to find answers, maybe they are testing whether they will get love or railing in return...
I am reminded of how Jesus dealt with the soldier that was going to lead him to his demise, Peter cut off the man's ear...Jesus healed it. Now, if anyone was being persecuted for no good reason, it was the Lord....and...what was his response? And what did he tell us about love?
John 13 (NASB)
34"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
35"By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another."
Matthew 5 (The Message)
1-2 When Jesus saw his ministry drawing huge crowds, he climbed a hillside. Those who were apprenticed to him, the committed, climbed with him. Arriving at a quiet place, he sat down and taught his climbing companions. This is what he said:
3"You're blessed when you're at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule.
4"You're blessed when you feel you've lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.
5"You're blessed when you're content with just who you areno more, no less. That's the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can't be bought.
6"You're blessed when you've worked up a good appetite for God. He's food and drink in the best meal you'll ever eat.
7"You're blessed when you care. At the moment of being 'care-full,' you find yourselves cared for.
8"You're blessed when you get your inside worldyour mind and heartput right. Then you can see God in the outside world.
9"You're blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That's when you discover who you really are, and your place in God's family.
10"You're blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God's kingdom.
11-12"Not only thatcount yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happensgive a cheer, even!for though they don't like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.
13"Let me tell you why you are here. You're here to be salt-seasoning that brings out the God-flavors of this earth. If you lose your saltiness, how will people taste godliness? You've lost your usefulness and will end up in the garbage.
14-16"Here's another way to put it: You're here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We're going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don't think I'm going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I'm putting you on a light stand. Now that I've put you there on a hilltop, on a light standshine! Keep open house; be generous with your lives. By opening up to others, you'll prompt people to open up with God, this generous Father in heaven.
17-18"Don't suppose for a minute that I have come to demolish the Scriptures either God's Law or the Prophets. I'm not here to demolish but to complete. I am going to put it all together, pull it all together in a vast panorama. God's Law is more real and lasting than the stars in the sky and the ground at your feet. Long after stars burn out and earth wears out, God's Law will be alive and working.
19-20"Trivialize even the smallest item in God's Law and you will only have trivialized yourself. But take it seriously, show the way for others, and you will find honor in the kingdom. Unless you do far better than the Pharisees in the matters of right living, you won't know the first thing about entering the kingdom.
21-22"You're familiar with the command to the ancients, 'Do not murder.' I'm telling you that anyone who is so much as angry with a brother or sister is guilty of murder. Carelessly call a brother 'idiot!' and you just might find yourself hauled into court. Thoughtlessly yell 'stupid!' at a sister and you are on the brink of hellfire. The simple moral fact is that words kill.
23-24"This is how I want you to conduct yourself in these matters. If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God.
25-26"Or say you're out on the street and an old enemy accosts you. Don't lose a minute. Make the first move; make things right with him. After all, if you leave the first move to him, knowing his track record, you're likely to end up in court, maybe even jail. If that happens, you won't get out without a stiff fine.
27-28"You know the next commandment pretty well, too: 'Don't go to bed with another's spouse.' But don't think you've preserved your virtue simply by staying out of bed. Your heart can be corrupted by lust even quicker than your body. Those leering looks you think nobody noticesthey also corrupt.
29-30"Let's not pretend this is easier than it really is. If you want to live a morally pure life, here's what you have to do: You have to blind your right eye the moment you catch it in a lustful leer. You have to choose to live one-eyed or else be dumped on a moral trash pile. And you have to chop off your right hand the moment you notice it raised threateningly. Better a bloody stump than your entire being discarded for good in the dump.
33-37"And don't say anything you don't mean. This counsel is embedded deep in our traditions. You only make things worse when you lay down a smoke screen of pious talk, saying, 'I'll pray for you,' and never doing it, or saying, 'God be with you,' and not meaning it. You don't make your words true by embellishing them with religious lace. In making your speech sound more religious, it becomes less true. Just say 'yes' and 'no.' When you manipulate words to get your own way, you go wrong.
38-42"Here's another old saying that deserves a second look: 'Eye for eye, tooth for tooth.' Is that going to get us anywhere? Here's what I propose: 'Don't hit back at all.' If someone strikes you, stand there and take it. If someone drags you into court and sues for the shirt off your back, giftwrap your best coat and make a present of it. And if someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live generously.
43-47"You're familiar with the old written law, 'Love your friend,' and its unwritten companion, 'Hate your enemy.' I'm challenging that. I'm telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his bestthe sun to warm and the rain to nourishto everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that.
48"In a word, what I'm saying is, Grow up. You're kingdom subjects. Now live like it. Live out your God-created identity. Live generously and graciously toward others, the way God lives toward you."
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I have read things on this forum that literally make me want to tear my hear out...and a good amount of those messages came from fellow believers. There have been times when I have composed a message out of frustration...only to be checked by the Holy Spirit and had to hit the delete button....and in hindsight, so happy I did. I know the Holy Spirit is using these issues as a learning lesson for us all, I pray the Lord be fully glorified in our struggle here.
I just wonder if we realize that when we accuse, rail, belittle one another how much damage we are doing to the body of Christ? Have we just smashed the big toe with the hammer of our pride? Blinded an eye with a spit wad? Or pierced the heart with a dart of wrath?
Our own toe
Our own eye
Our own heart
We are the body of Christ!
We wrestle NOT against FLESH and BLOOD....while we are fighting EACH OTHER, Satan laughs!
Is it easier to trash each other than to take the issue with your brother before the Lord?
He is coming for a church without spot or wrinkle....is our garment shredded? Does it need repair?
Let he who has an ear hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches.
We need to humble ourselves here folks and start praying like never before for one another.....Catholic, Protestant, Mormon, Jehovah Witness, Baptist, Church of God, Pentecostal, insert church here....We are not the ones that will determine who reaches the Pearly Gates...
Then maybe, just maybe those that are seeking the light of Jesus will find it....when we are no longer shredding one another, trying to prove who has the superior knowledge.
I claim to know nothing but Christ and Him CRUCIFIED!
Jesus was born in a manger, rode a donkey, forgave an adulterous woman, healed the ear of his enemy and asked the Father to forgive those who crucified Him.
I thank you all for this learning lesson...it is moving me beyond myself and into the Throne Room of God...I find myself on my face before Him....it is painful, yet glorious....
Holy Spirit come