I don't ascribe to Calvinism though I do think it is much closer to the truth than Armenianism is. To be tempted is to be tested, one Greek word, two English words used depending on the translation. James describes how temptation results in sin entangling us.
James 1:13-15
13 Let no one say when he is tempted, "I am being tempted by God"; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone.
14 But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust.
15 Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death. NASU
The Greek wording in this passage paints a picture of a hunter luring it's prey rather than stalking it, or as a fisherman baits a hook and tries to lure a fish from the safety of it's hiding rather than finding it and spearing it. In the case of the fishing example, it is not the worm on the end of the hook that causes the fish to be caught, it is the fish's hunger that causes him to answer the temptation of the worm.
It is not the pretty girl that causes me to sin no matter how she is dressed or not dressed, it is the wicked and lustful desire in me that answers the temptation that causes me to sin. The flip side to this lining up with what I'm painting about Jesus is; I am heterosexual and do not find the male body attractive "in that way" on any level what-so-ever. Because there is no desire in me to have sex with a man, I can be tempted, tested, baited, drawn by a homosexual but because I do not desire worms, I won't bite that hook.
That is much different than secretly desiring to be with a man but fighting off the urge and saying no. Because in that case though I didn't sin in the flesh, I had already committed sin in my heart. Jesus was tempted but He didn't sin. Jesus didn't win because he successfully fought the urge to commit homosexuality, or fornication, or murder, or robbery. Jesus was fully man but at the same time fully God. Jesus didn't sin when tempted because there was no wickedness inside Him that could cause Him to be successfully drawn to sin.
It is not the sack of unprotected money that causes me to steel, it is my greed and lack of contentedness that causes me to sin.
Jesus taught that if you merely looked upon a woman and lusted in your heart (even if you never "answered" lusts call outwardly) then you were already sinning.
The reason Jesus did not answer (the fishing example) is because He wasn't hungry for worms.
When tempted (tested) by the flesh of woman (the bait) there was no lust in His heart that caused him to answer the temptation inwardly or outwardly so as to be lead to sin. He was tempted yet without sin. Think on this carefully.
There is not enough money or property to successfully temp Him because He is not greedy, and He owns everything. He was tempted, yet without sin.
When Satan said, "bow down to me and I will give you all of these things" (and all of the other temptations), Jesus was tested or tempted, but did not pursue the bait because the sin nature was not inside of Him so as to be able to be drawn to commit sin. He didn't "wrestle" with the idea and choose to ignore the "pulling in His heart to worship Satan". There was no wickedness in Him that would allow it.
I give you this by way of condensing much study and information that would be impossible to type here. But I will bring my point home by saying this:
Your conclusion leaves Jesus sinning in His heart on every count that He was tested on.
We live in a fallen world.
We have a tempter (Satan) trying us at every angle
We live under a fallen (sin) nature that causes us to want everything that God deems as sin, whether we actually pursue it or not.
The sin nature is what was missing in Jesus. All
three will be missing in us when the whole story is done.
Does all of that mean that He couldn't relate to us or have compassion for or common ground with us? Not at all.
He was 100% physical man with the 100% nature of God, not man's fallen nature.