How do you expect Jeff to send you the order after you filed a dispute... pls read the updates in the JANTY Q&A thread.
Easy enough. Paypal takes forever to resolve disputes... 30-90 days if I remember correctly from the time I had one before. They *want* people to work out the issue first. If the product had been received, the dispute would have been closed. Ignoring the claim or not sending the merchandise only prolongs the proceedings making both parties unhappy, and in the end you give the money back anyway and lose a customer in the process.
Paypal disputes don't mean that the money is taken from the Vendor immediately and given to the purchaser. It is a process, and one the vendor should be involved in.