Warning: Long post to follow...
Jerry, just avoid reading the timeline on FB...

I've only read it a few times and that's where I've seen all of the ugliness pop up...sometimes from those who have been friends... One of whom I know well enough to know that his hate is, unfortunately, based on an occurrence that happened when he was a teenager...

My FB page is set to private and I only visit the pages of those friends that I know don't post any thing ugly or distasteful, or the art group pages that I follow ( and have rules about any such posting not being allowed).
While on the subject of FB, I have a warning about FB Messenger... Last week I received what I thought was a message from a friend, who is also a friend here on ECF. Her name and FB profile pic was used. "She" told me she had just been given a much needed Federal Grant and was happily deciding how to invest her 50k. I told "her" to be careful of scams and was assured it was real, and gave me the name of the lawyer who had helped in securing it, and suggested I text him to find out if I could get one also. Gave me a number, that was supposed to be his private cell.
In spite of her being my friend, I don't believe in Santa, so I did a search on the lawyer and a reverse number look up for the cell phone. The name of the lawyer is a well known, young, up and coming attorney in NC, whose work has nothing to do with the acquiring of Federal Grants. The phone number traced back to Renton, WA... This old lady was born a bit earlier than yesterday...
The next couple of days, messages..."Sandy, are you there? Did you text for the grant yet?" When I answered that the lawyer in question had nothing to do with that kind of work, was told "He just recently started working for the government". Yeah, right...
The persistence, and insistence was upsetting me because I have been friends with this person here on ECF since the beginning of my time here, and I didn't want to ruin that by blowing her off on FB...
Yesterday morning, another couple of messages, not at all what I would expect from the person I know from here, that tipped me off that it might not actually be her. So...I sent a PM here, asking if she had been messaging me on FB messenger, or...if somebody else was using her name and pic.?
My final message to the "phony".. "Take your scam elsewhere. You are not ********! You are using someone else's identity and have been reported..."