Lounging By the Beach - Part 2

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And a special good night to our fearless founder.:)

Goodnight Glam! Love that panda! :wub:

I stepped away for sec, just got back.
 

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Sea, my occupation just might have been a factor in my aches. Diagnosed with shoulder tendinitis. I get by. And, not quite 60, but closing in on it.

I was a vegetarian from 1969 to 1981.

NCC, maybe when you get 62, you can go to the dr and get a disability claim and draw almost the same amt you could if you waited until you were 65. Then you could move to OR with a steady income coming in. Also, you can still work part time. If you work full time, they will deduct from your check. If you make too much for SS, then they will just put it on hold until you are no longer making that much money.

EDIT: I was talking about social secuity checks, not disability.
 

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NCC, maybe when you get 62, you can go to the dr and get a disability claim and draw almost the same amt you could if you waited until you were 65. Then you could move to OR with a steady income coming in. Also, you can still work part time. If you work full time, they will deduct from your check. If you make too much for SS, then they will just put it on hold until you are no longer making that much money.

EDIT: I was talking about social secuity checks, not disability.
I should have you as a financial adviser. I'm not too swift, historically, in taking advantage of benefits I'm entitled to. It is crunch time though. Nearly too old to make the move, I've gotta do it in the next few years or forget it and die here in Hell.


EDIT: So peculiar. JaG would love to be here in hell, while he's living in my heaven (or nearby).
 
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Goodnight Sea and NCC and whoever is reading! :)

May childlike dreams dance through your slumber tonight...

LOL, JaG - I went white in the face when i read this. I had a dream the other night, and believe me, it wasn't childlike - an adult dream would be more like it. I think I need to get out more often, LOL.
 

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LOL, JaG - I went white in the face when i read this. I had a dream the other night, and believe me, it wasn't childlike - an adult dream would be more like it. I think I need to get out more often, LOL.
Not to worry Sea. Wouldn't be human otherwise, heh. I don't suppose you'd want to share? Shame NCC, shame!



BTW, what is this "get out" you speak of? Is it like what I used to look forward to on weekends? Get a paycheck and go out and have a good time, or at least make an effort to have a good time?

<sigh> I remember when weekends meant something.
 
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When an elderly mother starts feeling and showing her age, she will need extra help with her hygiene, so your sisters would be the better pick there. Before my father passed away, Hospice helped him with his hygenic needs. He was so ill at the end that they were here daily for those chores. For the rest of the day, I hired neighbors to spend the entire day with him.
 

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When an elderly mother starts feeling and showing her age, she will need extra help with her hygiene, so your sisters would be the better pick there. Before my father passed away, Hospice helped him with his hygenic needs. He was so ill at the end that they were here daily for those chores. For the rest of the day, I hired neighbors to spend the entire day with him.
I am sadly ill equipped for the task. She's 84, and so far is doing very well for her age. She still drives and does well, considering. I visit her a couple times per week to check on her and help her with common tasks. As you've inferred, she relies on me to a degree. I am not comfortable skipping town without someone agreeing to take up the slack.
 

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Nah, that's okay, NCC, no sharing on the dream, LOL.

I haven't dated for a while b/c every guy I start dating wants to get married right away. Just when I'm warming up to a guy, having a ton of fun, and then he wants to get married.:( Then when I say I don't want to get married for a couple of years, they take it as an insult and then they don't want to see me again.:( Marriage is okay, but then there's someone there all the time which means I have no privacy anymore.

I used to date a guy that was a conductor on the railroad. He was gone 5 days, home 3 days. That's how the Union Pacific freight trains in OR are. It was a wonderful relationship b/c I got my privacy. I'm not sure that I'm really marriage material b/c I do really treasure my quiet times.
 
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