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Shadav

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just posting real quick...i'll try to catch up...but gg I doubt i'll get the nova mailed out...

kind of a touchy subject but I think I posted in here, don't remember...my eldest has been battling a bit of depression....I didn't realie how bad it was, no one really did until today....she thankful has a good relationship with the school councilor and admited to him today that she's been intentionally hurting herself by scratching her stomach until it bled....and had suicidal thoughts and even planned out how to do it....and when I was almost called into work last night she was going to attempt it, she knows it wrong and is sorry but can't help her thoughts....
so yes we've had a very long stressful day with councilors and they let her come home, they were on the fence...she's on the verge of hospitalization but we all agreed that that would make her shut down and block everyone out...she didn't want to come home cuz she doesn't want to talk about it to anyone, but I told her she didn't want to stay there either, it's not like a stay at the hospital, it would be no toys no phone no blankets, pillows ect...they would prob even chain her to the bed because that's their rules and they can't play favorites....so after some encouragement she agreed to come home and they allowed her as long as I keep an eye on her and she has to go there every day for group counciling...we will know more tomorrow....and they may decide that medication may help....right now it's a day to day and try to watch her without smoothering her but get it into her head that she's not alone and that I and everyone else does care about her and would miss her if she were gone....
this wasn't an attention plee, she's not one of those look at me kids....this is been a slow depression that we take one step forward two steps back but seems the backwards has been more than anyone knew...between not having a father, being a preteen, pms, my work schedule, and her perception of everyone gets on her all the time (because she doesn't realize how she talks and treats her little sister) she has it stuck in her head that everyone's against her and would be better off without her being around :(

I've never been so scared in my life than I was this morning when the school called....
my boss is trying to be understanding and I know this sucks for her with everything at work but as a mother and grandmother she completely understands and said she'd work 7 days a week if need be and that obviously my kids well being is more important but she thinks that my daughter did this as an attention getter which it's not....

anyways, i gotta go...i can't talk more about it atm and my kids waiting on me to play some games with her, i'm trying everything to let her know i love her and she's not in trouble and I do care if she were here or not...we went saw a movie and now goona play some xbox and try the rest of the week make some time just me and her and from now on my job will have to start working around my schedule instead of me on their time....

so well i'll be back prob later tonight but just wanted to stop in and say hey and if i'm not around well you'll know why and again gg sorry I'll try to get ya the nova but it'll be a bit longer...

catch up later.
 

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:oops: Did I really? :unsure: :facepalm: :laugh:

Eeee, I've got to go do a few "nightly" things .... I'll be back soon tho' ;)

Yep! You sure did!:laugh:

See ya when you return:)

I need to stop browsing amazon but I kinda like the idea of something like this for storage. It rolls & the compartments are removable. Wish I could see it in person. I'll have to visit lowes or Home Depot & see if they carry them.
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Hey Shadav:wub:
I'm so sorry to hear that she's going through this. Thank God for her opening up to the counselor & your boss being so understanding. I'll be praying for your family dear. I hope that you are able to get some meaningful help tomorrow & moving forward. I'm so glad she was able to come home with you as well. I can only imagine what you're going through. I know it's gonna be hard for you not to hover out of love & concern. Prayers hearing your way dear.
 

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Is that the coil jig in your hand? How the heck does that work Jeff?:confused:
I just use a toothpick to wrap mines:laugh: Not ideal but highly effective. Hehehe! But I'm still think about the coiling gizmo...well just because I like vape related toys I guess. Yep! My name is Daune & I have V.A.S. Vape Acquisition Syndrome:D
 

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Is that the coil jig in your hand? How the heck does that work Jeff?:confused:
I just use a toothpick to wrap mines:laugh: Not ideal but highly effective. Hehehe! But I'm still think about the coiling gizmo...well just because I like vape related toys I guess. Yep! My name is Daune & I have V.A.S. Vape Acquisition Syndrome:D

U can check it out here http://www.kkvapetek.com

I bought it a few months back when he was selling on Facebook and it builds great coils
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Here is a good review and video on the jig RBA Coil Jig by KK VapeTek (English): http://youtu.be/88oq34a3gc8


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    just posting real quick...i'll try to catch up
    so well i'll be back prob later tonight but just wanted to stop in and say hey and if i'm not around well you'll know why and again gg sorry I'll try to get ya the nova but it'll be a bit longer...

    catch up later.
    {{{Shadav}}} Our thought's & prayer's for you and your DD :(
     
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